We always knew we would find out the gender. But now DH tells me he would prefer not telling people....after I have told a ton of people that our u/s in on Wed I would tell them all what we are having. He thinks it would be fun to surprise people. I really want to share and celebrate with everyone. Plus I have friends holding clothes until we find out then they will give them to us or pass on to someone else. I am excited for hand me downs...we never had that before. We both agree we will not share the name...that will be hard enough for me I am a huge talker. I just don't know what to do. I want to respect DH wishes but we should have discussed this earlier...he told me the reason he said that was because he knew I could not keep a secret. Which to be honest would be so hard for me. I will for sure share with you guys.