I gave my husband an ultimatum. Either he works on our relationship or it's o er. He has until July 15. I have nit received one hug, one offer to help me with anything ( not even to being in the groceries) or had one conversation with him since I got pregnant, and not much before that. He ignores our daughter and goes out almost every night. I am lonely, tired and need someone I can cpunt on, not someone I resent. I know he needs to be on medication but this runs deeper. I promised I wouldn't move away and that he can see his girls whenever he wants. He is not a bad person, he is not a deadbeat, our relationship is just dead. We'll see if he's ready to try and change and work on us loving each other again, but having been rejected day after day, I just can't handle it anymore. I would rather be a single Mom, than a married one who resents not being loved and not having the help I need.
Thanks for listening. I just hope I have the courage to follow through. Until then I'm going to vleN and purge as if we were selling the house, and the best case scenario we'll have a nicer place to live.