My girlfriend called me last night and was telling me about her son's diaper rash and how bad it was and how his poor little butt hole was bleeding!! Then she proceeds to tell me how fussy he is and how he has to take all kinds of diff medication and has 2 diff diaper rash creams to heal him up. Then, she calls me this morning to ask me do I want to babysit! I had literally gotten up 15 mins before she called and was sitting at the table attempting to eat something before I had to throw up. I said NO! Nicely of course, but am I wrong for not wanting to watch him? Wait... did I mention that its 4 mnth old twins?? I have all 3 of my kids home today, plus I have been super nauseated since last night. I just dont think I can handle 5 kids today with how I am feeling, let alone have to deal with a super fussy baby. She never wants to pay anyone to watch her kids either. If I really need a babysitter I will at least offer to pay someone! The only people I dont expect to have to pay are my parents!! UGH! Am i being a bad friend?