For those of you who had a C-section last time, what are your plans this time? Is anyone else torn?
I have been very set from the start of my pregnancy on a VBAC. I wanted a completely natural birth with DD but that didn't happen from the very start (I was induced at 42weeks). So this time I thought, 'this is my last opportunity to give birth naturally' since this will be my last baby.
I'm not so sure now though, I don't have a huge amount of trust in my midwife. My recent experience with her telling me that I shouldn't go in to get fluids was ridiculous, I was told the dr that there was no way I could have gotten better at home in the state I was in because my dehydration was just making my sickness worse. But I don't have a huge desire to find a new m/w either because I kind of feel like they are all the same...I had a terrible experience with my m/w with DD too. It would be so much easier and less stressful to just say 'book me in for a c-section on this date'. I am also a little bit worried about going through another 16 hours of labor and then needing another c-section because I want to be able to enjoy the moment when this baby comes into the world.
Such a hard decision! Looking forward to seeing what you ladies are choosing to do..