The tital says it all Post your rants, and comizerate, here
I am sick of everything in my house, it being all over the place all the time, not having the energy, or being in too much pain, to do anything about it. I am sick of my 3 year old testing and not listening... I know its a phase, but why does he have to do it right when I am feeling miserable??? also, I am still having BH's... at least some of the pressure seems to have gotten better after being on antibiotics for the UTI, and the BH's arent all that often, I am just nervous that they are still there. Also, I have a foot or something stuck up under my rib. lol.
hehe.. I feel ya!! My days off from work sometimes seem harder then my work days, cleaning and cleaning and nothing getting done.. oh and speaking of the devil I head my own 3 year old screaming from my room.. Hes probably mad @ the dog.. haha.. Ohh apparently he spilled water all over my bedroom and "am i mad at him?" haha...
I have so much work left to do on the house before the baby gets here that its stressing me out!! But at least it keeps time going by fast I guess!!!
My hips hurt, by the end of the day my feet are killing me, no matter what shoes I happened to wear that day. My cats are picking up on my hormones and are crying loudly to be petted but as Soon as I bend down (ever the process), they run. I despise our new paralegal at work (and it didn't help that they let go our part time paralegal who happened to be my best friend here) to hire him. My house constantly feels messy to me. Everything smells everywhere. Chocolate makes me nauseous, and my.five year old is off the wall hyper. DH has no clue why I'm stressed and exhausted (mostly work related) and he's not doing anything extra around the house to help out.
Cancer sucks. Especially when a baby has it. And having a newborn and a baby with cancer, really sucks!
Katherine 7/5/02 Olivia 8/2/04 Freddie 5/31/07 Ellie 5/24/11 and Owen Benjamin 10/31/12
I guess my rant would be DH. He's getting on my nerves lately. I hate to even say that because normally I love being around him and I feel like we have a really great relationship. I have always taken pride in the fact that we get along and enjoy being married to one another, but lately he just drives me nuts! Ugh I keep telling myself that it is probably just hormones and it will get better, but it doesn't. Has anyone ever felt like this? I mean, I want to be nice and pleasant, but I just can't seem to make myself be "myself" around him.
Totally have been there. I love my DH, and like you, I love being married to him. But, there are times, when I want him to shut it. lol. Luckily, its not all the time, and it does seem to be when I am more hormonal. My advice, take some time just to yourself. Get out of the house, leave him with DS, and just take yourself out to lunch, go shopping, see a movie, whatever it is that YOU enjoy. Just because you are married to someone doesnt mean that you have to like all the same things, be joined at the hip when you arent separated by work, etc. Also, as a mom, I know I have a hard time finding, let alone taking, time just for me. And, its also important that you do it. The same goes for the marriage relationship. Even just an hour in the tub, alone to read a book, or whatever, helps me
My quad screen came back positive, 1:100 odds of Trisomy 21. Went in for level 2 ultrasound and they found 2 soft markers, raising odds to 1:15. Drs pushed hard for me to do an amnio, but I refused. Then, they offered me the MaterniT blood test. Thankfully, it came back normal! BUT the doctors still tried to posh me into an amnio for 100% certainty. Smh. The blood test has 99.5% certainty, why would I risk an amnio?
We live in military housing and have had a lot of problems with mold. I've had to move us to a temporary house twice since my husband deployed in March, so that they could remediate the house. We were out of our home for 6 weeks in March-April and 3 weeks in May-June. The mold is back and it looks like we will have to leave, again. Smh.
My husband's 6 month deployment (it was supposed to be a short one, since they just got home from a long one less than a year ago) keeps growing and is now about 8 months. He's currently due home less than a week before my C-section. Rumor has it, we will have two months following deployment to report in CA where they've decided to move his squadron. Smh.
My rant for the day is packing for 5 people!! My DH is no help and doesnt even seem to care that we are leaving tomorrow! He sat on his *ss all day while I went to class and had to work and did not a darn thing!!! Now he is at work until 11 and Im not going to have him digging for his stuff in the room while I am trying to sleep so I can go to work in the morning again before we leave! I cant believe he doesnt feel the need to help me at all! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow. We moved about a month after DS2, and then DD, were born. NOT fun. Hopefully your older kids will be at least a little helpful