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Sex Ed 101

So I was surfing around the net last night, when I came across a study talking about women's O (the big 'O' heh heh) and how when conceiving a woman should orgasm AFTER a man b/c it helps pull the little spermies into the uterus and up the Fallopian tube. Am I the only blonde who didn't realize that? I'm almost never the one who finishes...... um, last. Lol! I fixed that last night. Finger's crossed it might do the trick. Wink

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I heard that, too! Then I read Taking Charge of Your Fertility and it said that by O'ing before intercourse, your cm becomes less acidic and more um, welcoming to sperm. So I guess either way you're good. Smile

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I had heard both................... I just wish one of them was working.

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i heard both, i tried it last month and it didnt seem to help apparently since Im in November but we'll have to try it again this month

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i heard that if you finish together it ups the chances but i never heard that if you finish after him it helps. I don't know if hubby would be able to keep it together long enough for me to finish after.... is that TMI?

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I too have heard you're good either way--there are benefits to both.

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"glwolf" wrote:

i heard that if you finish together it ups the chances but i never heard that if you finish after him it helps. I don't know if hubby would be able to keep it together long enough for me to finish after.... is that TMI?

Not TMI at all. I don't think mine would be able to either... he would probably have to help me get there in other ways.

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Jina, TMI honesty here, my DH can rarely get me to the top of the mountain. I have to.... help myself. Or he can help in other ways besides sex. Wink
I guess there was a show on Discovery about this last night too. They had a lady with blue dye in the 'cave' and when she O'ed it sucked right up in. The muscles even pushed the dye toward whichever tube the egg had popped from. Pretty interesting. I wish I could have seen the show.... being in the midst of TTC and all.

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"DrakePlusOne" wrote:

Jina, TMI honesty here, my DH can rarely get me to the top of the mountain. I have to.... help myself. Or he can help in other ways besides sex. Wink
I guess there was a show on Discovery about this last night too. They had a lady with blue dye in the 'cave' and when she O'ed it sucked right up in. The muscles even pushed the dye toward whichever tube the egg had popped from. Pretty interesting. I wish I could have seen the show.... being in the midst of TTC and all.

I watched this show, it was so interesting!

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welll.. since were are giving tmi..... i have clitoral orgasms meaning there are plenty of time DH doesnt even have to be in me just rubbing against my clitoris and im like in heaven best O ever... Maybe because i have it pierced that could be another reason why i can get " there" lol.. hehehe.. TMI much ?

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I thought I replied to this already but I dont see it so... anywys.. haha...
This month is one of the few times that I actually "O" during our BD- Usually I'm more worried about getting those sperm in there. But this month I was like what the heck I might as well get satisfied- and I always "O" after him- it's easier that way.

HMMM maybe it helped!!!!

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"DreamingBig" wrote:

Not TMI at all. I don't think mine would be able to either... he would probably have to help me get there in other ways.

Agreed same here! Kim we seem to have so much in common in the BD department! LOL

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"MrsV2B" wrote:

welll.. since were are giving tmi..... i have clitoral orgasms meaning there are plenty of time DH doesnt even have to be in me just rubbing against my clitoris and im like in heaven best O ever... Maybe because i have it pierced that could be another reason why i can get " there" lol.. hehehe.. TMI much ?

I have heard this about clitoral piercings. I would love to try it but I'd be so afraid to get it pierced. it's so sensitive wasn't that like the worst pain ever?

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"lemonlemon" wrote:

I thought I replied to this already but I dont see it so... anywys.. haha...
This month is one of the few times that I actually "O" during our BD- Usually I'm more worried about getting those sperm in there. But this month I was like what the heck I might as well get satisfied- and I always "O" after him- it's easier that way.

HMMM maybe it helped!!!!

hmmmm maybe it did! I wish you still had your chart up for us to see! Did you BD right before o? I'm curious...

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I actually mentioned this theory to DH last night after we BD and said that next time maybe he shouldn't wait for me and i should finish after him. He said that sounds too complicated LOL. I guess I should just be happy that I O just about every time and not worry so much about when its' done LOL

PS... what is the name of that show? It sounds so encouraging i want to see it.

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"glwolf" wrote:

I actually mentioned this theory to DH last night after we BD and said that next time maybe he shouldn't wait for me and i should finish after him. He said that sounds too complicated LOL. I guess I should just be happy that I O just about every time and not worry so much about when its' done LOL

PS... what is the name of that show? It sounds so encouraging i want to see it.

My DH said it is "too much work" to worry about who O's when. Damn, men don't get that getting pg can be HARD and we want to have as much control as possible.

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lol honestly Gina, its a quick pain and then its like extra sensitive...

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Ok, total TMI here, but after BDing I also had.... my fun, myself. No DH helping. Quick and to the point, if ya know what I mean. Just helping those little spermies on their way! Wink

Gina, I'll have to see if I can find the name of that show....

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Gina- Yeah I bd'ed like two(ish) days before O, (31st and 1st) and then O'd the 2nd or 3rd.

Marie- Whatever gets the job done right!

I think it's funny how your men think its too complicated- haha, mines lazy I think or selfish so thats why I figured he makes sure he gets "his" first, then decides to humor me and keep 'goin' for me to finish.. haha
I cant believe Im typing this kind of stuff!! I feel naughty haha
can you imagine what our men would think if they found our posts?!?!?

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Lol if my DH found this, he would be so peeved. Lol.

Marie- I, uh, helped myself on Vday after we did the deed. So I got I before and after him. Wink

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"MrsV2B" wrote:

lol honestly Gina, its a quick pain and then its like extra sensitive...

oh bonus! was it horribly embarrassing to get it done?

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"DrakePlusOne" wrote:

Ok, total TMI here, but after BDing I also had.... my fun, myself. No DH helping. Quick and to the point, if ya know what I mean. Just helping those little spermies on their way! Wink

Gina, I'll have to see if I can find the name of that show....

I love it! I did this on the day before v day! I thought i was the only one who did this... guess I'm more normal then I thought. So I got it before and after him LOL. I just wanted to make sure they got up there you know?

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Hahahahah Gina- Whatever it takes right?!?! and it's nice to get some "pleasure" out of this tough job of TTC!!! :):)

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"glwolf" wrote:

I love it! I did this on the day before v day! I thought i was the only one who did this... guess I'm more normal then I thought. So I got it before and after him LOL. I just wanted to make sure they got up there you know?

I love that you did it before and after Wink

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Gives a whole new meaning to "V-day!" hahaha @ my stupid jokes.

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Gina lol kind of i had a man do it . I was more strange having a man down there and gim not be your man ! Lol i mean i was 18 when i had it done so i was still new too everything going on lol

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