1. What the hell gives people the right to ask me if this was a planned pregnancy? I've been married for 11 years. So what if it was? So what if it wasn't? Its my baby, I'm keeping it. I'm raising it the way I want to raise it and I'll love it the same as if I'd tried for 11 years to have a baby or had a one night stand with a guy I barely knew.
2. Why do people keep asking me if I'm disappointed not to have a girl? Honestly with my first, I was so upset when we found out it was a boy, but then he came and I love him to death. He's funny. He's sweet. He's charming and I wouldn't change him for the world. With this one, I honestly said, no matter what I have, I'll be happy so long as it's healthy. Well I got what I wanted. A healthy baby. Yes its a boy. Yes that means that altogether including my stepkids from my husbands first marriage, I'll have four boys and zero girls. You know what? I couldn't be happier. The three first get along great and I am sure this one will be the same. If I want to buy pink I have twin nieces I can buy for. No I'm not disappointed. I love my boys and I will love him. And if was a girl, I'd love her.