I'm just curious who works outside the home and who is a SAHM, and if anyone will be changing that after baby comes. I've been lucky to work full time AT home, but I do still need full time child care in order to get my job done since I often have calls during the day and have to have dedicated and regular working hours. A lot of my friends didn't go back to work after baby #1 and I'll admit, it's what I want to be doing. We've talked about me possibly not going back after #3 gets here. It's scary to think since we'll lose my income and I worry about being a good SAHM - will I do the right things to teach my kids and help them grow? But then, watching someone else raise my children is getting harder and harder for me it seems.
What does everyone do? What are the best things for you and your family about what you do?