So, one of my best friends from college has been trying to have a baby for about 4 years now. She and I both started trying (me for my 2nd and her for her 1st) around the same time. I feel like we bonded b/c we both didn't get pregnant right away and had some struggles, but, eventually I did get pregnant with Camden and she has now done IUIs and will be doing her 2nd round of IVF at the end of April. With her 1st round, whe had a chemical pregnancy. I just don't know how to tell her I am pregnant with my 3rd. I feel like everyone around her is getting pregnant and I know that is tough. We live in different states, but talk at least a couple times a month on the phone and via facebook. She is someone in the past that I've always told right away that I'm pregnant. Another one of our good friends suggested that I wait until she goes through her next round of IVF so maybe she would be pregnant when I told her, which would be best case scenario. I thought about it, but I really feel that worst case scenario would be that she did IVF and it didn't work and then I told her. I'm thinking about maybe sending her an email so she can process it, but am not sure if that would be too impersonal. Any advice or ideas??