Waiting to O......

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Originally Posted by ange84

Af is due tomorrow. I tested and nothing. On 11dpo I had a faint line (yeah I lied and said I hadn't tested, I don't get excited by faint lines) so I am preparing for a visit tomorrow. On to another month I guess. Next EDD would be end of Nov so not sure if I'll stay here or head to DEcember

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Awe man.. I'm feeling a little discouraged myself today so you get a virtual hug. :bigarmhug:

It's so hard to be patient and listen to the advice I give almost daily, which is that everything does indeed happen for a reason. And I know this to be true, however it's so much easier said then done. When we decided it was finally time to pull the goalie and go for #3, I was on cloud nine.. so excited! And although I still am very thrilled to be in this mode it's harder some days then it is others. For instance DH and I got into an argument over something pretty stupid but it totally ruined the whole idea for me and I even felt a little bitter about the idea of having to DTD. So I didn't. But now I feel guilty and like a bad parent. Idk.. this whole thing really and truly is an emotional roller coaster and apparently I'm along for the ride.

Hang in there Wendy.. Everything will fall into place when it's meant to. If only it were truly on our terms.

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Originally Posted by DreamingBig

Hi... I am coming out of lurk mode where I have spent... months.

If all goes well, I will be doing IUI in a few weeks and if lucky enough to get pg, I would be due around Thanksgiving. I thought I would try to think positive and get to know you all better.

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WELCOME!!! Positive thinking is the theme here!! ;) Although it's difficult to say we will be staying in Nov for sure, it's fun to get to know the people that are going through the same types of feelings and emotions that you are right now. I have a very close friend that is in her second round of IUI right now, what a trooper you must be! It's so physically demanding, much more so then DTD like crazy I must say! (And I honestly find that to be quite daunting!)

Please feel free to share anything, it's pretty hard to be too modest when it comes to TTC! I'm sending sticky vibes your way!!!

So I guess I am just sitting around waiting for af, should start rearing her ugly head soon. I started to cry at everything last night and hubby asked if I was pregnant which made me cry more.

I'm so sorry Wendy. I know how you feel. I haven't really shared this yet, but DH and I tried for a baby after DS #2, for six months. And NADA. So we took a break and we are finally back to trying. I am so scared that if I'm not pregnant this month that it will turn into six months again which will turn into taking another break. BUT, I'm trying to not think like that.

Also, we have not DTD as much as we should have. I'm so discouraged because other then my calander, I have NO idea when I O. I have absolutley zero discharge EVER. So I have no clue based on that. So we could have caught an egg, but I have no idea when to expect said egg.

We decided if we are not preg this month we will take next month off to avoid a christmas baby. But Who knows what will happen. I wish I knew, that would make me feel better.

Hang in there.. You are in good company Wendy! :)

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Originally Posted by Ryker'sMama

WELCOME!!! Positive thinking is the theme here!! ;) Although it's difficult to say we will be staying in Nov for sure, it's fun to get to know the people that are going through the same types of feelings and emotions that you are right now. I have a very close friend that is in her second round of IUI right now, what a trooper you must be! It's so physically demanding, much more so then DTD like crazy I must say! (And I honestly find that to be quite daunting!)

Please feel free to share anything, it's pretty hard to be too modest when it comes to TTC! I'm sending sticky vibes your way!!!

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Thanks for the warm welcome!! I am hoping to get to stay here so badly. I start Clomid tonight so we shall see how things go.

Good luck ladies! I hope we all get a BFP soon! Hope you don't mind me jumping back in, I have been MIA due to internet problems. I had an HSG today, and my doctor said that gives me increased fertility for the next 3 months so I hope we catch the eggie soon! If we catch the egg this cycle I would be due Nov 16.

I will still even go for a Christmas baby, thats not what I want but if it's meant to be it will be. I'm questioning WTF my body is doing though, I had a couple of small spots of brown blood yesterday, and today has been all spotting which is not normal for me. Most has been brownish rather than pink or red. When I start af I start and late is abnormal, I should have started today and haven't really yet. The most I have had was a (TMI) 5c piece sized spot of more reddish almost cm consistency and then nothing on a second wipe. Thanks body for screwing me around.

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Originally Posted by Lily2006

Good luck ladies! I hope we all get a BFP soon! Hope you don't mind me jumping back in, I have been MIA due to internet problems. I had an HSG today, and my doctor said that gives me increased fertility for the next 3 months so I hope we catch the eggie soon! If we catch the egg this cycle I would be due Nov 16.

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Michelle!! I have been watching for you! I'm glad to see you back and working on things again.
I got my bfp the cycle after the cycle I had the hsg. :) I really hope that will do the trick for you!!

Are you on clomid still?

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Originally Posted by DreamingBig

Hi... I am coming out of lurk mode where I have spent... months.

If all goes well, I will be doing IUI in a few weeks and if lucky enough to get pg, I would be due around Thanksgiving. I thought I would try to think positive and get to know you all better.

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Just wanted to say welcome and good luck!!! :)

Michelle- good to see you back! I hope your BFP happens quickly. :)

Susan- thanks for the warm welcome.

As for me, I started clomid last night. Keeping everything crossed that this is our month!