Can I cry now?

**abh413** · 10-02-2011, 04:58 PM

Just found out my dad has a temp of 102.4. Tomorrow is my pre op appt before my csect on Tues. Now I can't have mom or dad near me or DD in case it is something contagious. They are supposed to be watching DD while I'm in the hospital during the day.

Now I have to come up with another plan fast & I honestly have no idea what I'm going to do. It took me so long to come up with a solution that I felt semi comfortable with.

DH doesn't even see what the problem is. And couldn't understand why I'm crying. DD isn't that girl that just happily goes with anyone & I fully expected her to freak out with the original plan too... I've never been away from her. Now my anxiety is through the roof. Oh & I'm supposed to be resting & staying calm because my BP is high. Super!

I'm just so distraught right now. It just all feels like a bad omen. Probably pg hormones aren't helping I'm sure. I will take any thoughts, prayers or well wishes anyone wants to send.

**Ajwilliams04** · 10-02-2011, 05:02 PM

Sorry to hear this. Changing plans at the last minute can be rough and stressful! Hoping you come up with a solution quickly

**wobbs** · 10-02-2011, 05:25 PM

I hope you can come up with a solution quickly that will work for your dd! And I hope that whatever your father has isn't serious.

CanadianaSally · 10-02-2011, 07:13 PM

Anita, I hope you find a solution that works. I was very stressed about leaving Clara behind while I was in the hospital but it ended up turning out okay. I know it's hard but try not to stress out too much about it, everything will work out in the end. I thought Clara would be devastated with me gone but she did good! I hope your dad is okay too.

**kittenchan** · 10-02-2011, 07:32 PM

I hope your dad feels better soon. As for your situation, I'm so sorry. I hope there's an easier solution than you're afraid of. If you need any help that I can provide, don't hesitate to pm me!

**abh413** · 10-02-2011, 10:59 PM

Thanks ladies! I had my dad call his Dr because I was concerned in might be pancreatitis. The on call Dr had him go to the ER. I probably won't find out anything until the morning. I have pre op tomorrow.

I will try to pop in & out of here when I can & post an update. I'm trying not to get too stressed & keep Ethan in until Tues. I was already feeling nauseous & having contractions everytime I stand up before all this drama. When it rains...

Hopefully they can figure out what's wrong with dad & fix him up soon. I have a feeling he will be admitted tonight.

**K_Lo** · 10-03-2011, 03:33 AM

I hope you all can find an easy solution! And I hope your dad is okay!

**L.Miller** · 10-03-2011, 07:45 AM

I'm sure it will all work out in the end. I remember you trying to figure this all out before, so I'm sorry the plans have been thrown off. I know how it feels to only have one option. Relax and just remember it will all be over soon!