The pointless "check in" calls that are trying to seem casual ... really don't think it was necessary for my sister to call me to tell me my nephews 1st communion is May 12th .... really? It flip flops between my mom and my sister and when I don't answer or don't call them back they make my dad call .... ugh .... I know it's with the best of intentions but it's SO ANNOYING!! You really don't think I'll let you know when I'm in labor????