So, we were still in the discussion phase about whether or not we'd find out the sex of the baby. I've really had a strong desire to wait until birth to find out. So far DH has been on board as well.
Until the other night . . He said, "I'd really like to find out, but I'm ok with us not finding out." I told him that I thought he really wanted to find out and if he did REALLY want to we would. You should have seen his face! He lit up and was so happy.
I'm really glad that I went with my gut because I had no idea that knowing meant so much to him, but I'm having mixed feelings about it. I had really gotten set on NOT finding out and now I'm not sure how to get excited about finding out sooner. It feels like it's going to be a let down.
Thanks for reading this. Do you have any advice on ways to build it up?