We went for our routine 11 week appointment yesterday and DH & my worst nightmare came true. The baby no longer had a hb. We were so excited going in to that appointment because we were almost out of the woods nearing the end of the first trimester, and things were looking ok at previous appointments, but it just wasn't meant to be.
I had a D&C this morning, which has been very difficult to cope with. I'm absolutely heartbroken. We'll TTC again when we're ok to do so in 3 months (which is going to be incredibly tough to wait for). Going to go the clomid/progesterone route from the start next time to hopefully help our chances, since this is our 3rd miscarriage and I also have PCOS. The compounded losses are really starting to wear my heart down, but I have faith we'll be parents again one day.
I just wanted to thank you all so very much for your beautiful support, and wish you all the very best with your October babies! It was such a pleasure to be a part of such an amazing group of caring mommas, and I wish I could hug each and every one of you. Much love to you all.