Heartfelt goodbye to all you lovely Oct. moms *LOSS MENT.*

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Heartfelt goodbye to all you lovely Oct. moms *LOSS MENT.*

We went for our routine 11 week appointment yesterday and DH & my worst nightmare came true. The baby no longer had a hb. We were so excited going in to that appointment because we were almost out of the woods nearing the end of the first trimester, and things were looking ok at previous appointments, but it just wasn't meant to be.

I had a D&C this morning, which has been very difficult to cope with. I'm absolutely heartbroken. We'll TTC again when we're ok to do so in 3 months (which is going to be incredibly tough to wait for). Going to go the clomid/progesterone route from the start next time to hopefully help our chances, since this is our 3rd miscarriage and I also have PCOS. The compounded losses are really starting to wear my heart down, but I have faith we'll be parents again one day.

I just wanted to thank you all so very much for your beautiful support, and wish you all the very best with your October babies! It was such a pleasure to be a part of such an amazing group of caring mommas, and I wish I could hug each and every one of you. Much love to you all.

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I'm so sorry, Andrea. What a sad day. I know how hard this is.

Thoughts, prayers and hugs to you and your family.

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:bigarmhug: So sorry Andrea Sad

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Oh Andrea!! I'm soooo sorry! I've been thinking about you lately and hoping things were OK. Sending you lots of hugs and cant wait to see you back on the boards TTC!

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Oh no Andrea I am so very sorry. I know from experience that words can offer no comfort though I wish I could say something to ease your pain. 3 losses is a lot to endure please take it easy and give yourself a break on duties for awhile if you can. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for healing now and a healthy baby soon. Your wonderful presence will be missed here!

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I'm so very sorry for your loss! Its such a hard thing to go through, recover and gain the strength to do it again! I wish you the best with the future and your blessed with a little one that you deserve!

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I'm so so sorry Smile

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I'm so sorry!!!

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So sorry to hear this my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Andrea I'm so sorry to see this happen to you, I enjoyed having you on our board.

Joined: 08/20/11
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I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what you are going through. *giant hugs

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I'm so sorry for your loss *hugs*

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Huge hugs! I'm so sorry. I had 3 consecutive losses too, so I know how painful it is, especially seeing other women have successful pregnancies and wondering if you're ever going to have another baby. I sincerely hope that the next time will end with a healthy baby in your arms.

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My heart breaks for you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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I'm so sorry. :bigarmhug:

I hope you're able to come back with some good news down the road. We'll be thinking of you and cheering you on.

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Sending you big hugs. I'm so sorry!

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I sincerely hate to hear it and I'm so sorry it happened this way for you. I do love that you have faith that you will have a baby soon though. I lost one this last summer and even though it was early on and all of that, it still made me pretty jaded for this pregnancy. I'm glad you continue to find your strength each time. I wish you all of the luck in the world.

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I am so so sorry. You'll be in my T&P's.

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I'm so sorry for you loss Sad

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I'm so sorry for your loss.:stillhug:

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I am so so sorry for your loss Sad I know how hard multiple losses are. You are in my thoughts and prayers.