Heartfelt goodbye to all you lovely Oct. moms *LOSS MENT.*

**Flower of Life** · 03-21-2012, 05:36 PM

We went for our routine 11 week appointment yesterday and DH & my worst nightmare came true. The baby no longer had a hb. We were so excited going in to that appointment because we were almost out of the woods nearing the end of the first trimester, and things were looking ok at previous appointments, but it just wasn't meant to be.

I had a D&C this morning, which has been very difficult to cope with. I'm absolutely heartbroken. We'll TTC again when we're ok to do so in 3 months (which is going to be incredibly tough to wait for). Going to go the clomid/progesterone route from the start next time to hopefully help our chances, since this is our 3rd miscarriage and I also have PCOS. The compounded losses are really starting to wear my heart down, but I have faith we'll be parents again one day.

I just wanted to thank you all so very much for your beautiful support, and wish you all the very best with your October babies! It was such a pleasure to be a part of such an amazing group of caring mommas, and I wish I could hug each and every one of you. Much love to you all.

**kal301** · 03-21-2012, 05:57 PM

I'm so sorry, Andrea. What a sad day. I know how hard this is.

Thoughts, prayers and hugs to you and your family.

**ambie719** · 03-21-2012, 06:08 PM

So sorry Andrea

**lemonlemon** · 03-21-2012, 06:32 PM

Oh Andrea!! I'm soooo sorry! I've been thinking about you lately and hoping things were OK. Sending you lots of hugs and cant wait to see you back on the boards TTC!

**Tiffany** · 03-21-2012, 06:34 PM

Oh no Andrea I am so very sorry. I know from experience that words can offer no comfort though I wish I could say something to ease your pain. 3 losses is a lot to endure please take it easy and give yourself a break on duties for awhile if you can. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for healing now and a healthy baby soon. Your wonderful presence will be missed here!

**onlyn2urmoney** · 03-21-2012, 06:35 PM

I'm so very sorry for your loss! Its such a hard thing to go through, recover and gain the strength to do it again! I wish you the best with the future and your blessed with a little one that you deserve!