Ok I need to take a second and get this out. I've totally been ranting to DH the past week and its just not helping i think I just need to talk to the ladies
I work for a bank, there's a total of 8 of us that work there so we are a small center. Anyway I'm a supervisor and one of my tellers just doesn't realize how insensitive she is and its driving me crazy. I want to just snap at her but I can't cause i'm her supervisor I suppose I could talk to her about how crazy she sounds but really truly I don't think she gets it. She finds nothing wrong with what she says.
This has been on going for at least a week but if I told you the whole story you'd be reading a novel so i'm just going to Highlight the key comments she's made.
- A male co-worker (with 2 kids and a gf of 7 years) and I were talking about excersising and I said that my DH doesn't want me to do zumba until I talk to my doctor again at my 8 wk checkup. Misty (the girl i'm talking about) says " well he shouldn't have any say its your body and the male doesn't count." She preceded to go on with how he shouldn't have any say in the name, what I eat or what I do and that the women do most of the work. And then she say's that the guys always leave anyway so I should just do what I want. I was so mad!
- yesterday consisted of she doesn't understand why women sign up for labor and when she has kids she better be in a coma.
-she happens to have a friend they induced yesterday and she tells me that her friend better not have an ugly baby cause she won't know what to say when she see's it. she tells me her friend was induced at 8am and at 12p she asks me how long this should take cause she doesn't want to wait all day to go up and see the kid.
-The kicker for me is this: 2 days ago she gets a call at work when she comes back she is throwing a fit (like a 2 yr old) saying omg I can't believe this, this is horrible I'm so mad. I ask her what is wrong she tells me that her SIL called to tell her they had an ultrasound and found out their baby is a boy. She is so upset they are having a boy cause she hates boys and now what will SHE do. I was shocked especially cause i'm really close with all my co-workers and she knows that DH and I are hoping for a boy. I told her that if she reacts this way if we have a boy i'm going to be upset. She informs me very rudely actually that if I have a boy she's going to say the same things and feel very sorry for me cause that sucks I would have a boy.
I can't even explain how much she was going on and on about hating baby boys and how ugly newborns are and how she doesn't understand women in labor. Even after she heard me talking about how sad I am we have to have a c-section and how I so much want to labor and birth my baby. This girl is 30 years old, 5 years older than me you'd think she'd have some sense in her head. And she even said that someday she wants kids badly...um I don't think she should be having kids with that attitude! I'm not sure I can go another 8 months listening to her, she's only been working there for 5 mnths to all my other co-workers (who i've worked with for 3 yrs and are like my family) just look at her like do you even know what your saying, do you even realize she's pregnant? How can people not realize that they are rude! Any comments come your way yet or with your previous kids?
Ok I do feel a lil better now...and if you read this whole thing your a saint