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Sad news....

I lost the baby. Fetal demise officially and it happened recently. They couldnt find the hb today with the doppler so they did an u/s. There was no fluid around the baby and no hb. They arent sure what happened. I felt pressure and like I had to pee a lot Monday night and wonder if I didnt lose the fluid then but she said she thought I would continue to leak fluid for awhile and I didnt seem to. She thinks its more likely that the baby couldnt produce fluid of its own and compressed the cord and died. I am sad, very, very sad. It hasnt really sunk in totally to be honest. I was hoping to have a d&c and be done but I might be too far along for that. My MW was awesome and assured there was nothing I could have done but she cant do the procedure. I have to go meet with an OB tomorrow morning. I may have to have an induction which would suck but it is what it is. I am just so sad to have to write this and hope no one else has too. I hope you all have a very happy and healthy nine months and dont feel you need to turn off siggys.

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So sorry for you loss :bigarmhug:

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I am so sorry. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.

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I am so very sorry. My heart is breaking for you.

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That is such sad news and I'm very, very sorry. ((Hugs))

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Tiffany I am so sorry for your loss.

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Iam so very sad. I am soo soo sorry. Sending you (((hugs))) and thoughts and prayers.

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I'm so so sorry!!!

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I am so so sorry Sad

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:bighug: I'm so sorry. What a shock!

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:bigarmhug: Tiffany I'm so so sorry Sad

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My heart is breaking for your right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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So sorry Tiffany Sad

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I am in tears right now this breaks my heart. So sorry praying for you .

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Oh no. How awful! I'm so sorry.

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So, so sorry for your loss Sad

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I'm so sorry to read this, Tiffany. I was really hoping it wouldn't happen to anyone else. Big hugs for you.

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Tiff- I am so sorry to read this! You are in my thoughts and prayers! ((HUGS))

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Tiffany, I'm sending loads of prayers your way. So sorry to read this. Sad :bighug:

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I am so sorry, Tiffany Sad I am a lurker from November and always loved that you have a large family. My heart is breaking for you :bigarmhug:

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Lurker-Im soooo sorry to hear of your loss

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Im so very sorry for your loss. Hugs

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Oh no! I am so sorry to hear this news!! My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family!

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Joined: 11/21/03
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Thanks everyone. It's been really hard but I know I am lucky to have 6 healthy children at home. I will be ok in the end but it will take time to heal and I will always carry it with me. I go in tomorrow for an induction I was too far along for a d&c which sucks. It will be tough tomorrow but I want to move on.

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I'll be thinking of you! :bighug:

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I'm so so sorry to hear it. I hope that peace and comfort will find you soon.

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Tiffany, I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart just breaks for you! You'll be in my thoughts and prayers today!

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Tiffany, I'm so sorry (again). I have been praying for you, specifically yesterday. I hope you're doing okay. :bigarmhug:

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My heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry. Praying for you and your family.

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Thinking of you Tiff (((((BIG HUGS)))))

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I'm so sorry...........Praying for you and your family.

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