Scared of Everything, and This is Alarming to me!!

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Scared of Everything, and This is Alarming to me!!

So due to previous losses (I hope everyone isn't so sick of hearing me talk about that, but it effected me SO deeply it's constantly in the back of my mind) I have been SO NERVOUS about every little thing. So with that said- DTD has completely stopped since we found out. Well, this weekend I gave in because I have felt so distant from DH. It was nice, and needless to say it didn't last long. Smile However, I have an extremely tilted uteris and it took a few attempts to get the right angle. Well, the next day which was yesterday - I noticed some brown stuff in the toilet. I have been wearing a panty liner and haven't seen anything on it but when I wipe sometimes there is a very faint brown color. And I even put a tampon in and pulled it right out to see if there was anything, and there was a small amount of brown discoloration.

SHOULD I BE WORRIED??? Or was it just irritation from the sex? HELP!!

1st time mummy's picture
Joined: 08/03/10
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Brown is old blood. I would not be worried. I have been spotting/discharge from my progesterone brown blood since the beginning and everything was fine at my 6 week ultrasound. And since my snow pants no longer fit and I am in maternity pants already I would assume everything is still ok.

BUT if you really need to ease your mind call your DR they usually don't mind. They can tell you if you need to worry or not....

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Also I have never had a loss but we did pay for this pregnancy. And worked hard to get it. I am SCARED of EVERYTHING as well. If I wake up not feeling so sick I assume it's over....if I am not so tired I assume it's over....tonight I don't have a heavy feeling in my belly so I assume it over.....I think when we have experiences a loss of have tried really hard to get to this point we over analyze things and always assume the worst. We need to learn to trust our bodies and a higher power that things will turn out the way they should!!!

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I agree that brown is old blood which is no biggie and probably just from DTD so I wouldn't worry...easier said than done, I know! If it continues beyond a day or two, you could always call your doc just in case and to ease your mind. I am sure all is well though:)

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Thanks Ladies!! It has pretty much stopped, still nothing on a pad. And I am still MISERABLY sick, so I'm thinking peanut is a tough little one and won't let out little DTD session get in his/her way.

So good to see a new expecting Mommy here! Smile

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Joined: 03/02/14
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So glad it has stopped! That can be scary for sure!!

I have to share, you and I have the same name just spelled differently! I spell it Lindy:) Small world...our name is not all that common LOL

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NO way!! I LOVE meeting same name buddies, because like you said - it rarely happens! I'm so glad we are going to be able to share our pregnancies and October babies together, so glad to have you here. Smile

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I'm like Marianne, if I don't feel anything, I think I'm not pregnant and something is wrong. It's all normal for us to be freaked throughout. It took me so long to get pregnant that it feels too good to be true, but I just need to stop with that kind of thinking.

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I feel great right now, and it's FREAKING me out!! I'm sitting here at work, and I don't feel like I need to run to the bathroom. Something must be wrong!!! Why can't my brain be logical?? It's torture!!

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Ive felt great the entire time so far. And it is hard to believe that Im pregnant, I thought first trimester was all about feeling terrible... not here! Although in the afternoons while Im at work I catch myself fantasizing about taking a nap under my desk thinking no one would miss me. lol

Ryker'sMama's picture
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Not to worry, I'm puking again. Smile

SO jealous you feel great.

1st time mummy's picture
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I've been puking today as well....5 times before I made it to work today!!! Smile I throw up at least once a day!! Smile

Joined: 02/01/14
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Awww hang in there ladies!!!! from what I have read it will get better soon!!!

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