So my BIL started to date a girl a year ago, they decided to move into together so my BIL put an offer in on a house in April and he finally closed on it in August. They decided to have a housewarming party.. So they sent out an invite and its in 2 weeks.
Back story, so we went over there a few weeks ago and it felt like it was both of their house but more her house. Which Im not saying is a bad thing, but it was hard to be myself because I was so worried my kids were going to annoy them. My BIL isnt like that but it is her that Im worried about. So I made all my kids stay outside.
Back track after the invite. I wrote her saying that I can make it and hopefully my dh can too but if not I can come for a little bit and Im sure my dh Parents would help me keep an eye on ds, who would be the problem cause he is 3 and likes to run around and do what 3 year olds do. So she wrote back saying, Well can you find a babysister? What about Jessica?
I was like WTF? Are you serious, you want me to find a babysitter for my dh brother housewarming, their housewarming? Whatever!! I wrote her saying well are you inviting Jessica? and she said yes, but they werent going to invite kids because there is going to be drinking! Why wouldnt you put that in the original invite.. Um Adult Housewarming! Hello~
So then I started thinking well is this what housewarmings are? Is it known to not take kids to housewarmings? So I started asking friends and everyone said no, that usually its just like a gettogether with food, BBQ,etc.. Not a drinking party. So I wrote her saying oh well I didnt know what kind of party it was and she wrote me back saying,, well if you cant find a babysitter just bring the kids then..
Its so stupid, why tell me to find a babysitter and then tell me its no big deal if I have to bring them, and to me its just beyond dumb because these are my BIL neices and nephew. Its not like some random kids coming to this. So I told dh and when I told him she said to find a babysitter, if faced changed. He was pissed. He's like well were not going then I guess cause Im not paying a babysitter to go to my brothers house.
So today I go to my MIL house and she asked me if I got an invite and I said yeah but its more like a drinking party and she goes yeah I guess they dont want kids there. So I know she talked to my MIL cause I got the invite in the mail and no where on it does it say Adult only, I hope a shizload of kids come and we stay home and make them feel like ****!
All of Dh family are going to be there and I hope someone goes so wheres the Smiths and I wonder what they will say..
Yes this post is stupid and long but she has already pissed me off 3 times and there not even married. 2 times were because she was being flaky by making plans with us and then canceling last minute and then this. We had plans with them for the past month to go out this Saturday and she text me yesterday saying she is going to cancel because they decided to go up north.. LIsten women, I know you guys are kidless, but guess what were not. I cant go finding babysitters and planning stuff and then ending up having to cancel because of this or that. Its either make them or dont..
Do you think that is weird about the housewarming kidless party and better yet not even inviting your own brothers kids.. Ugggh.. Im annoyed!