Do you have friends? Does your SO have friends? I'm not talking college buddies that you talk to on Facebook. I'm talking people you could call up to hang out with, preferably without kids present. How did you meet your friends?
I ask because I think my DH needs some friends. I have friends. I have friends that I've met through school or through babies. I have at least half a dozen friends who I could call up to arrange a "ladies night out" (with varying degrees of advance notice). They may not be the BFFs that I had when I was younger but I think I'm beyond those years of my life and I'm quite satisfied with the adult relationships I have. My DH on the other hand has no friends. Like literally no friends. He couldn't have a guys night out even if he wanted to. Sure, he can rattle off the names of the DHs of my friends but they don't count IMO. I pester him about it occasionally but he never does anything about it. He doesn't seem to understand that friendship requires a certain level of maintenance. He's not the maintenance sort of guy. How do I get him to have friends?!