do you mind is a stranger vents lol? Sorry I am never around anymore.. I try to be and I lurk all the time...i miss being around..:confused:
dh's mother is on my LAST nerve!!!! Seriously I am tired of her crap. She really doesn't seem to give a crap about my dh or her grandchildren.
I am gonna lay the cards out on the table, my MIL left dh's dad and her 3 kids to live across the county with a woman she met online. The other woman seems nice enough, but still.. my MIL treats this woman like she is the WORLD. I think it is messed up, considering she'd toss her kids aside for this person.
This other woman has a son with two kids, the first one is his kid the other child is not his kid, but the woman he is dating. My MIL takes these children in as her own. She takes pictures of them and puts them on her facebook.
She came down for a whole 3 days for dh's dad wake (she is not attending the funeral) and never really seemed to acknowledge trevor or chloe. In fact I think she held her once, and then gave her back because she was "heavy":rolleyes: Dh's mom has seen chloe a total of 4 times her entire life. You'd think she would have scooped her up and never want to let her go :(.
In all, it is ok. My parents LOVE my kids. They treat them right, but still.. it is not right! Dh's dad, while I did not exzactly get along with him, I do say that he loved his grandchildren. It makes me sad that they will never really know that, and all they will ever know of his dh's mother...who doesn't even care about them :(i know I did my share of vents about my FIL, oddly enough my new years resolution was to be nicer to dh's family, including his dad.
Thanks for letting me vent...