Wooo Hooo, happy day!!!
I've not got the pain but about the most tender perineum EVER. Wishing that away currently.
~Joy~ DS1-8/5/05, DS2-10/18/10 (VBAC#1), DS3- 4/11/12 (VBAC#2!)
i had this moment a few weeks ago. I was starting to fear that it would never go back to feeling normal. As far as the finding time you just have to be creative!
I'm still wondering how to find the time too. It's not very romantic when it goes, "hey, they kid might actually be asleep!!! Quickie?" Which of course every dang time the kid wakes up before you can actually finish a quickie because apparently he doesn't ever want a sibling.
If any of you girls need advice on finding the time, you just let me know! My BF and I are able to find all sorts of time!
That's awesome that it doesn't hurt anymore. I know what you had to do to find that out, so it seems you've been able to find some time Just wait till the baby is asleep and then walk around in your 'tiny' panties, it never fails.
We haven't had too much trouble with this. We just wait till she falls asleep at night when we know we have about an hour or two (not that it EVER takes that long) before she wakes up.
Last edited by AnnaRO; 07-19-2011 at 12:05 AM.
We are using the most fail safe method of birth control, abstiance. When hubby gets home at 10/11pm I put Ronin back to sleep and then fall asleep myself and there is no way I am getting up for nookie at 1am when hubby comes to bed, Ronin is usually about to wake up then, so basically I have no idea if it hurts or not.