I cant talk to any of my friends about this as we are all friends with the same girl,
Basicly, she isnt putting her children first, he main importance at the moment is when her next night out on the town is, find the next man for sex and gettin her nails done, (i would understand if she was single with no children).
She has a 9yr old and a 3yr old. and they are palmed of onto who ever will babysit at the time, including a 13yr old. they have no fresh food in the house or food in the cuboard. the kids live of value stuff. whiles she will buy loads of chocolate, alcohol, and bottles of coke for herself. She lives of benifits, her children are there when she is sleeping with every tom **** and harry, the house is a mess and smells fousty, they hardly go to school cause she cant be bothered to get out of bed in the morn.
Today i asked her if she wanted to do something with kids her reply, was i cant afford to do anything i only have enough money to get my nails done and money for going out sat night, i asked her if she had done a food shop and she said i went to supermarket and spent £20 on a weeks shop. (how can you do a weeks shop for £20, i spend at least £70 a week) her nails cost £20 and going out is another £40.
I just CAN'T understand how she can spend so much on her self, and hardly anything on her children, they dont eat any fresh fruit or veg, have any nice clothes, or go on any days out unless its free,
I could never put my children in the same situation, if i had hardly any money and no food but wanted to get drunk i know what i would do my kids dont go with out anything.
Sorry for long vent, i am so mad at her right now, and dont know who else to talk to.