Thread: I'm so nervous...(and now..)

and now af is late!! WTH.. I think my body has no idea what is going on. Also I am spotting a lot more now. like just randomly. I almost wonder if that is my new af the month.. that would be nice
But my weight loss has hit a stand still.. it is weird. I think AF is on her way but...i have no idea.. of course most likely I will start thursday and have to reschedule my appointment

I made a appointment with my gyno because 4/4 times after dtd I am getting bright pink spotting on the tp. I have no other symptoms.. dtd doesn't hurt or anything. I am so worried something may be wrong. My grandmother had cervical cancer at my age so I guess that is another thing on my mind. Also, when I had my ectopic pregnancy I got weird spotting like that, only alot more of it. There is really a slim to none chance of me being any kinda pg though. I am more worried about the cancer thing. My entire family has thryod issues, maybe that could be it? Also I have lost 20 lbs almost (need to update my ticker).. could losing weight cause it? It did start once I started losing weight and exercising. I hope it is nothing serious. Please keep me in your thoughts thursday. Anyone with experience on this would be great! I know it is kinda odd though. I am dreading the "your husband may be cheating" talk. I know way too many people who get that talk. Though, my ob knows my husband. I am pretty sure he would know better than to even mention that. I don't want that crap clouding anything that may truly be wrong with me..

I have no idea. Hope its just a fluke & nothing serious.
WTG on kicking nearly 20lbs!!!

I don't have any answers, but hopefully it is just your cervix is a little sensitive or something. Best wishes for a good appointment.

Congrats on the weight loss! Awesome!

No idea, but I hope you get some answers. ((hugs))

Congrats on losing 20 lbs! That's fantastic!

No answers, but hopefully it is nothing serious, could just be some sensitivity or irritation that is bleeding . KUP I will be thinking about you And way to go on losing 20 lbs!

i'm not sure, maybe you have a sensitive cervix? i will be thinking about you.

congrats on losing 20 pounds!!

I've been told before that I have "friable" cervix when getting pelvic exams early in pg so I would spot more easily than maybe typically - could be as mentioned earlier that it's just sensitive?? I do notice some spotting also after dtd sometimes - I'm kinda noticing it depends on the time of month & my cervical position - if it's low I notice it more, also position while dtd that may hit the cervix more seems to make a difference. Just some thoughts?

Actually yes, I have been told that. When I was pg with Trevor they did a test on me around 20 weeks ish, to check if my water was leaking. And I bled. I was told that it was not "normal" but that I must have a sensitive cervix. I have no idea. I hope they can figure it out. Now, I should be near starting AF but.... I am just spotting on the tp instead. it is really weird. IDK if they are gonna let me go if AF ever normally comes.. I may have to reschedule but I hope not. Thanks for the input everyone.
Oh and I did take a pg test because I had one handy that was expiring in may, BFN.. thankfully..

Congrats on 20 lbs! Ever since I had LO I spot and have random issues from my cervix. Part of it is my IUD I'm sure. Why would they give you the "other woman?" talk? That doesn't seem fair. I would just get an appt and tell them cancer is a factor in your family history and you're worried. Get a pap, and make sure everything is okay and then see why it would be happening.

How late? Are you always on time?