I've been trying to find a babysitter that I feel that I can trust with Aiden, but so far the only mom I feel comfortable with lives off base 30 minutes in the wrong direction from my OB appointment. Since my appointment is already an hour away that would be a bit of a big deal to me - 90 minutes drive just to get there and then 90 minutes drive back and then another hour of driving just getting Aiden to and from there! That sounds insane to me and potentially rougher than just dragging DS along. I figure I'd bring a carrier and my stroller both. The first appointment is the longest appoint I should have according to them. I had two first appointments with DS - one for paperwork and one for seeing somebody. This time that's all in one.
Any advice? Should I keep looking, suck up the long drive, or pray for the best with bringing DS?