Its not my party, and I will cry if I want too....
My mom's 60th will be in a few months...
I want to do something awesome...because she is awesome...I have it all in my head...but here is my issue:
I don't get along w/ her side of the family (aunts/uncles/cousins)
My mom loves them and attends any function (2hrs away) w/ them...a few times a year.
I personally think they treat her bad, use her, and talk crap behind her back. (I have heard it) she doesn't believe me. My one cousin was smoking ________ at my gma's funeral w/ her BABY in the car...I came unglued (I was getting my water from the car...I was pregnant, and flew home for the services) I couldn't believe it...and when I told my mom, she didn't believe me....grrrr...
She also was on drugs while preg w/ at least 3 of her 4 kids...they say she is clean, and I am HAPPY for her. Glad she is getting her life together!!:0)
ANYWAY, what the heck do I do? She has SOO many friends...and is adored by many...(she is a GOOD KIND woman) I just don't want them there...AT ALL. Period.
IF they come, I won't bring my kids or come. (yes, to my own party I am throwing)
I don't wanna suck it up either.:eek:
Am I being crazy? What if it was just her friends? Hmmm? They never threw her a party...they never get her cool things...?! HELP!
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