So N is our first child. When I was pg, we interviewed different dr and chose him because of some referrals we received and the fact that I like him from the interview and it is a smaller place so not long waits, etc.
Anyway throughout the past year he has been good. Some things I haven't been comfortable with like the fact that he says he doesn't agree with the rear facing carseat thing as long as possible. But today he upset me to the point that I will be looking for a different dr.
It started with the fact that N was getting 4 shots today. Well he wanted to do the flu shot on top of that as well. I said no Ill wait a few weeks because thats too much all at once (to me anyway). He gave me attitude about my choice. Then he brought up N's weight. He weighed in at right under 30 lbs. His height is at 31 in. Yes I know he is a big boy. He is still breastfeeding but only like 4 times a day. I make all his food and closely monitor his intake, etc. DH and I were both very big babies till around 2 1/2 so I didn't think much of it. Well mr dr says that I must not be monitoring his calories because his weight is too high. He made some comment saying babies shouldn't be parked in front of the tv with juice in a sippy. He has had maybe two sips of juice all his life! He only has water in his sippy. I told him this and then he gears the conversation toward too much tv. I was like wth? you don't know what goes on in my home. He hardly watches tv, maybe like 20 min a day.
Then he said that his weight might prohibit him from walking. N is already walking...
Then he asked if he was in daycare. I said no I stay home with him. He then said that I need to do something to socialize him more if I am choosing no daycare. N has hit all of the major milestones so far so I am confused on why he would say this. His tone was also very horrible. Not only what he was saying but how. I was upset like he was questioning every one of my parenting methods.
Thanks for letting me vent.