I am wondering if I should try getting ronin on more of a schedule, he is still up late most nights and is waking at least 4 times a night, often more. Would it even be worth it seeing as we have to go pick hubby up most nights? I tried Babywise, but reading it there was just something that didn't click for me. If I do try I am likely to buy save our sleep and use their program, mostly for the day because I understand if he still needs a night feed for awhile longer. We have a 5 day weekend coming up so that would be perfect for trying to get him started. I feel bad because it's more for my needs, being back at work the lack of sleep is killing me and I am not doing my job well. I feel selfish for thinking of putting my needs first when the hierachy of needs should be Ronin, hubby and then me.