Well, I went to see my ob yesterday and he said that my spotting is completly normal. Congradulated me many times for my weight loss and asked for tips! LOL I love my ob, he is amazing.
as far as my rant goes.
I do not have middle child syndrom, I promise! I have a jerk for a older brother and my younger brother while a amazing person, is a spoiled baby.. I really feel bad about saying that but it is true.. not that I blame him if I was handed everything, I would do the same thing..
Yesterday my mom was gonna watch the kids for me while I went to the doctor. My appointment was at 9:45 and she calls me at 8:50 to tell me that my older brother called and "before she could catch him to tell him not to":rolleyes: was gonna drop my nephew off. My brother works construction work, while his wife has a full time job. She said, I will just tell him to drop him off at your grandma's house. My grandma is 80 and doesn't need strep throat either! So then she suggests that to him and he got all pissed off and told her that he would drop him off at 11. I told her that my apointments with my doctor take a hour already and that I may not be back by then.. so then she tells him and I guess since he had a minute to cool off because "gasp for the first time my mom isn't kissing his butt!" he said that it didn't matter. While all this was going down, my mom had the "oh poor him" tone to her voice. It pissed me off! I actually told her the second time she called me that I would just reschedule but that I was having issues and was worried about it, but whatever.. that finally clicked something in her head to finally act as if she cared at all.
It hurts me so badly that my own parents treat me this way. I mean, I matter too. I shouldn't have to reschedule a doctors apointment that she has known about for 2 weeks just so my brother can drop off his really sick kid with no notice at all. This isn't the first time. My mom has called me before while dh and I were on a date night to tell me to "come get your kids" because my brother was bringing my sick nephew over. I am not scared of my kids getting sick or anything but that was the time that Trevor couldn't because his surgery was in a few days. They missed most of Trevors birthday party because my nephew had a baseball game Which really hurt, he will only ever have one 4th birthday! and I didn't even bother to ask for my mom to watch Chloe today because I already know that she is my brothers baby sitter number one.. so I get to drag two kids along to sign him up for preschool today.
My dad too apartently does not like dh's talk about us moving into a trailer some day. He is all pissy with me because of that (or maybe it is because my brother missed work for stupid me, who knows) I really don't see how it is any of his business. He told me if I shopped less that we would have more money for a decent house :o well, since I am not handed ANYTHING it is kinda hard.. my kids could go without but I am not that kinda parent! My parents take my nephew shopping for things like clothes and stuff and if I happen to come around my dad tells me "I know you take care of your kids" so since my kids get taken care of by me that means they don't have to care about them.. they can go without. Same rule applies for Christmas. While my nephew is still opening gifts upon gifts, Trevor is done already watching! This was before I had two. It has always been this way. My dad has never offered to help me out.. not that he needs to. I don't give a crap. It just pisses me off that he is for my brother 100% but if we really need his help it is always on a pay me back soon type of deal. I know that we had a family and we should support it, I do. We do, even if we are broke we do. I am no way saying that I think my dad NEEDS to help me.. I am just annoyed with how he acts towards my brother and then how he turns around and acts this way towards me.
I love my parents, they do help us out SOMETIMES.. well by they I mean my mom, but it is not often. I just feel like they shouldn't spoil only one grandchild. That isn't how is works! I guess in their world it does.
Sorry this was longer than it needed to be.. I just needed to get that out. I hope ya'll don't mind.