What To Do?? :S

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sianbeames's picture
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What To Do?? :S

Ok, so my last period ended on Jan, 27th and i have not had another one since, i have done 2 tests and both are negative. I dont know what to do!
I dont breast feed.
The only Pg symtom i have is that my boobs feel a bit heavy, but no painful.
Any advice welcome Smile

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Hmmmm.... how many periods have you had? Were they pretty normal? Was your cycle predictable before? If this is really out of the ordinary for you, I'd consult a doctor. If you were pregnant, you'd be getting BFPs by now unless your cycles are really long.

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After I had DD my cycles were completely messed up. I would had a 2 wk long period, then went 60 days w/ nothing, then another 2 wk period, then another 60 days. After that the time between got shorter and shorter until my cycles became somewhat normal again. Since you're getting negatives, I think you are probably fine and it is just normal pp hormonal craziness, but you never know. I think I took about 1 test/wk just to make sure. KUP!

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If you are really worried you could go to your doc and see about a blood pg test. Then you'll know for sure. If not, you might just POAS once a week or so (I'd do it daily, but total POAS-aholic over here!)

Like Veronica said though, it could just be PP wonkiness. :goodluck: KUP!

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I've heard it's fairly common to have messed up cycles for awhile afterwards. If concerned, see your doctor. I wouldn't worry too much just yet.

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No new suggestions, but KUP on what you find out.

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No suggestions either but I too had some really screwed up cycles after DS1 until things got back to normal.

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My cycles went back to normal, about every 30days from 6weeks after Hannah was born ive had one in Nov, Dec, Jan. and now nothing going to do another test this week, if thats neg im going to leave it untill March 27 o contact doctors. then thats 2 months since last one.

Thanks for advice

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Hope all goes whichever way you want it to, hun. Please KUP.

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So, Now 2 months since my last period finshed, I have had 6 negative test. So i thought id use the last test just tho further ease my mind. And Guess what its a blazing BFP.
I seriously cant belive it, it was not planned or either crossed our minds that we wanted a another baby. We have both decided we DO NOT want anymore children. He is planning to have the snip.

I am so upset i could cry and angry with myself for letting this happen once with no B/C and i end up pregnant. I really dont know what to do we cant afford another baby or have the time we woud have 4 children under 4, i am not happy about this pregnancy like i was with previous pregnancys.

(pic is rubbish cr*p camera on iphone)

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That is definitely a second line there. I'm so sorry that the timing is so bad and that you aren't happy about being pg again. It will work out though, I think, because it always does.

:bigarmhug: I hope you can get to a happy place with it soon.

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:bigarmhug:

i know it will all work out for you

TiggersMommy's picture
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Uh oh. :bigarmhug: I'm sorry the answer wasn't what you were hoping for. We're here for you hun.

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:bigarmhug:

Everything will work out how it is meant to be. We are all here for you! (((((HUGS))))))

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Oh wow, I know that was not the answer you were looking for. I hope you find peace soon though. I'm so sorry hon! (as an aside, you are a terrific mother and I know without a doubt that you would do a terrific job with a 4th LO. I really believe that!)

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:bighug:

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Everything will be okay! I know its hard to deal with when your not prepared but you will be a great mommy of 4..

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Went to doctors yesterday, and got pregnancy confirmed and they think i am just over 10 weeks pregnant, but im being sent for a dating scan in a couple of weeks.

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wow 10 weeks already! I see the 2nd line too.
Sorry it wasn't the news you were hoping for. :bigarmhug:

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I'm sorry its not what you were hoping for. I'm sure it will work out in its own way for you guys.

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:openarms: I'm late in the game responding here.....the news of a pregnancy can be a bit overwhelming, especially when not planned but it will all work out hun...some how it just does. Like PP said...we're here for yah. :openarms:

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I don't know how I missed this before but just saw your news. All I've got are ((((Hugs))))

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** UPDATE ** M/C mentioned.

Went for dating scan, baby had no heart beat and measured only 6 weeks, i have to go in for a DNC on May 6th. as they only do it on fridays and the next 2 fridays in UK are bank holidays. Im not very happy as its 3 days before my birthday, and i have to have it done surgicaly as last time i had M/C i had it medicaly and it took 3 weeks and loads of stays in hospital,

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:bigarmhug:

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:comfort: I'm sorry to hear that.

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:bighug:

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