Vincent has a friend in school that insists she is going to marry him, it is so cute. She is black and has recently told him that they can't get married because she isn't white like him. He doesn't seemed phased by it and hasn't really said anything but she is upset by their color difference. Her mother is amazing and I know it isn't something coming from her, seems to be something she just happened upon herself. I don't want Vincent or her to feel like they can't be friends or one day marry because they are different races. What would you say? How would you approach this delicate race discussion especially at this age? I have never had to deal with this, not even with his big sister, so I am not sure how to approach it. I did tell them that it didn't matter what color their skin was it was what was on the inside that was important. She still seems to have a lot of questions, not so much Vincent, but her mother and I want to discuss it together with the kids so they both have an understanding.