Dh had his vasectomy on Friday. During the stitching up portion on one side, "something snagged". He wasn't sure if it was internal stitching or external, but it hurt SO VERY BAD he said. Over the weekend, one side healed, the other got worse. Today he's still REALLY swollen on one side and the stitching site actually started bleeding. So they said they want to see him. My dad is being a very nice man and driving him the 3 hours to the urologist and back. They are probably going to redo the stitching and give him an antibiotic. He's not super worried about it, but I'm feeling guilty. MIL is being very supportive and says that I shouldn't feel any more guilty than he would if I were pregnant and had complications from that. We both decided on the big-V, just as we both decided on each of our pregnancies. and it's nobody's fault. simply a complication.
Here's hoping they can really help DH and that after this he's all done with them and doesn't have to repeat anything else.
I've already told him that if the vasectomy doesn't take that I won't make him repeat it, that I'll just schedule getting my tubes tied.