Frustrated!-dtd

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VCoates's picture
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Frustrated!-dtd

So I'm on pelvic rest till my next u/s which isn't til the 23rd. Dh and I can do other things but it just isn't the same. We've not had sex since my big anatomy scan at 18 weeks which was like 6 weeks ago.
I'm so frustrated! I'm horny! I want to have sex!

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thanks, this made me chuckle! obviously, i cant offer any help, but good luck with that Lol

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i'm so sorry. at least hopefully you can at least have a big O other creative ways and relieve some of that tension.
Hopefully the doc will have great news for you at the end of the month!

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"VCoates" wrote:

So I'm on pelvic rest till my next u/s which isn't til the 23rd. Dh and I can do other things but it just isn't the same. We've not had sex since my big anatomy scan at 18 weeks which was like 6 weeks ago.
I'm so frustrated! I'm horny! I want to have sex!

Boy can I identify with you on this one! I can't tell you how much I have cried because of this. DH and I cant dtd at all because of the cerclage. It took an act of congress and much pleading to get DH to give me some relief in other ways. Hopefully, as pp said, you can get some relief in other creative ways. Hoping that the days fly by so you can see the dr and "things" can return to normal.

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ugh I could of written this post myself..... except I'm not allowed an "o" at all!!!! I try to be "kind" to dh...but IT'S JUST NOT FAIR!

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hey i hear you on the frustration but for a different reason, DH and i are doing better then my last mini rant but no matter how hard i try....... I can't have the Big "O" it is like it is stuck on off. while i can enjoy DTD, Dh ego is bruised since he wants to pleasure me like before we got pg. He doesn't like to go with out me, and i just haven been able to, it has been like this for the past month. :confused:

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"2confused" wrote:

ugh I could of written this post myself..... except I'm not allowed an "o" at all!!!! I try to be "kind" to dh...but IT'S JUST NOT FAIR!

No O at all?!?!?! I'm so sorry.

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"Chris_85" wrote:

hey i hear you on the frustration but for a different reason, DH and i are doing better then my last mini rant but no matter how hard i try....... I can't have the Big "O" it is like it is stuck on off. while i can enjoy DTD, Dh ego is bruised since he wants to pleasure me like before we got pg. He doesn't like to go with out me, and i just haven been able to, it has been like this for the past month. :confused:

In the beginning of this pg, everything down there was so much more sensitive but not anymore. I still am able to O but it just seems to take a lot longer. Are you able to O if you take care of things on your own? I'm usually pretty satisfied that I don't need to do that but I would if I just couldn't O.

Hopefully it doesn't stay like this post pg. I'm so sorry!

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"VCoates" wrote:

In the beginning of this pg, everything down there was so much more sensitive but not anymore. I still am able to O but it just seems to take a lot longer. Are you able to O if you take care of things on your own? I'm usually pretty satisfied that I don't need to do that but I would if I just couldn't O.

Hopefully it doesn't stay like this post pg. I'm so sorry!

Yep to the everything more sensitive in the beginning, but now sometimes it feels really full or bruised almost, MW said that is normal. Yeah I can O on my own but only with a vib.

I am sorry to those on pelvic rest, and not being aloud to O sucks even more.

I hope we all can get our "normal" or close to normal sex lives back after we are all healed from deliver.

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I just want good sex back. We can do it but I am at the size were it isn't very easy (I am measuring 34 weeks)

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"2confused" wrote:

ugh I could of written this post myself..... except I'm not allowed an "o" at all!!!! I try to be "kind" to dh...but IT'S JUST NOT FAIR!

OMG! Thats crazy! How frustrating to say the least!!

I'm sorry for all the ladies on pelvic rest Sad I know there are always other ways, but they aren't always as satisifying. We are at least on the way down, so there is a light at the end of the tunnel...

Chris - unfortunately for me, I'm one of those girls who can't O unless I'm on top Sad Would that possibly work for you? Maybe that would help a little?

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Oh you poor poor girl. I am so sorry!!! Hopefully you can get relief some how and soon!

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"jaimers617" wrote:

Chris - unfortunately for me, I'm one of those girls who can't O unless I'm on top Sad Would that possibly work for you? Maybe that would help a little?

I wish but that is the only position (me on top) that has been comfortable lately, and we do spoons but, neither seem to work. Before Pg we tried all kind of positions, and I usually could if i was on top or he was on top. so the other positions just aren't doing it.

Dh is really tall and thin, I am tall but have longer torso and plus size, so we never really matched up well, lol plus dh isn't that flexible,lol.

I bet we look like a funny pair.

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I was put on pelvic rest last pregnancy for 2 months w no O allowed, it was terrible!!

I hope u ladies can Find something to make u girls smile!

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I was on pelvic rest with my 2nd
and it seem like when we could i could care less and when we couldn't I wanted it more..
We slip and did it a few times.. it torture