Yikes. We figured it'd be tough to transition from 1 kids to having 2 and we've done our best to be sure to include our toddler in all things baby. We make sure to still have one on one time with him, we make sure to have him help us with things for the baby, we play with him...but its getting tough. For example - he wanted raisins. So we gave him raisins, he offered some to my husband, and he said no thanks, so Ryder cried. My hubs took them the next time Ryder offered, but put them back in the container, so Ryder cried. Its been like this for 2 days now. How have you ladies helped your little ones cope with a new addition? He is 21 months, so I know its going to be a struggle. But diaper changes, face washes, eating, drinking, getting up on the couch, getting down off the couch, and pretty much everything else turns into a crying fit (all completely fake) and possible stomping/kicking. What would you ladies recommend and what worked for you??