DH has always wanted to use the name Phoenix for a girl. We talked about it with DD1 and I was indifferent to the name. We finally agreed on Avalon (DH suggestion) - although in the delivery room he was still mentioning Phoenix. I was so exhausted at that point I told him I didn't care which name we use. He decided to stick with Avalon. So now baby #2 is going to be a girl as well so we are back to the naming debate. DH still has Phoenix as the one and only name on his list and I am still indifferent to it. We both came up with the same middle name so at least that isn't an issue. I have spent many hours looking at names and the only name that has sort of stood out to me so far is Winter and DH doesn't like it. I'm tempted just to agree to Phoenix because it would be easier but I'm afraid I might regret it. Have any of you agreed to a name that you didn't love? Do you grow to love the name? Does it matter to you either way? If I hated the name it wouldn't happen but I just have no strong feelings either way and I know DH really wants it.