I was supposed to have my shower this past sunday(May 22) but it was changed due to ppl being busy with high school graduations. So the date is now June 12th. I was planning my own shower since this is my 2nd and didn't feel it necessary to have someone else do it. Well my cousin says to me that she and my sister would take care of it. Nothing has been done apart from getting email addresses to send e-vites(which I think is a waste of time because most ppl don't check their emails everyday). I really didn't want to have a shower after 30 wks because of my condition. So reluctantly I agreed. The 12th is 3 sundays away and no one has been contacted about the shower:mad:. I am not a last minute person. I understand that they have families of their own...but they should have allowed me to continue to plan it myself if they weren't going to follow thru.