DS is 3 1/2 and goes to bed just fine in his own bed but at some point in the night he gets up and makes his way into our bed. This is KILLING me. For the obvious reasons but DS also has a hair fettish. He likes to grab a hold of my hair and rub it between his fingers. Normally it's very sweet and cute but when you're trying to sleep, it sucks. And he does it when he's not even aware of doing it when he's sleeping.
How do we keep DS is his OWN bed?! I cannot have this happening when this new LO arrives. Sometimes I have no recollection of him coming to bed with us until he's been in there for awhile. We've tried incentives like, if you sleep in your bed 7 times all nigh tyou can have a sleep over at Mimi's or if you don't sleep in your bed then you can't ride your motorcycle or play Curious George on the cumputer but it still isn't working.
Sometimes he stays in his bed all night but more often he makes it to our bed.