We got home this afternoon and other than dd being the meltdown queen things are going well. she loves her baby, note the her, yeah she is very possesive of him and jealous if anyone else holds him. She wants to hold him and being touching him constantly. I'm working on getting it so that she is helpful and not just all over him. at the hospital she started melting that she wasn't holding him...so I was able to get her to gather all the stuff to change him and help change his diaper. She felt important and involved and forgot about the meltdown, thank goodness. Will just have to keep doing that when possible.
He is still nursing like a champ but my body is just not producing enough yet so we are supplementing with formula. Poor little guy was doing a great job but wasn't getting results. Hopefully milk comes in tomorrow then things will be good. the good news is that he will nurse, take formula, then nurse again which puts him to sleep, so no nipple confusion and the nursing is comforting him, so I'm satisfied with that.
Well off to sleep a bit, will update with more tomorrow.
I finally finished this, here is a link to his story, on my blog: http://thecanonfamily.blogspot.com/