yep, i lost it OT long

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LauraMae78's picture
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yep, i lost it OT long

HEre are my complaints, didnt want to steal your thread Cass.

so we have been extremely busy getting everything done! new room for Brianna is done and most of her stuff is in it. we tore the walls off the NOW nursery and hung drywall. Thanks to my sister in law who is mudding them for us, HUGE burden off of us as she is doing it while we are at work. we hope to have teh nursery primed and painted by saturday, carpet guy is coming to measure the room today and i hope they can the carpet in early next week. after that let put the the furniture together and organize it. then we are done for the most part. a few more things are still needed, but no biggie. my plan is to be done and RELAX teh last atleast 5 week of this pregnancy. we have been so busy for the last 2 months DH and i are just worn out....i mean we havent even DTD in weeks cause he's just so tired, no amount of begging or hinting is working either ROFL and ok, im not exactly sleeping too well either, so i know im tired, but still...lol so lack of sleep, hearburn rib pain, hip pain, back pain, being starving and wanting nothing, pretty much all the preggo stuff AND lack of down time leads to THIS:

My FIL is giving Brianna the bedroom set that belonger to his parents, head and foot board and rails and 2 dressers, we just needed the mattress and to buy him new rails. so after work we went to pick up the new mattress that we ordered. so we get the mattress and box springs andload them up on the truck and ask about the rails and apparently the woman who rang us up didnt order the rails. So we look at the receipt and it was way too high of a price for not ringing up the rails (the mattress was on sale)so the receipt should have been about $130 cheaper with no rails ordered. so i go in and find a woman to talk to and question the receipt. the first lady obviously goofed up. so the woman helping us asked if we ordered split box springs. we did order them, ONLY because the first lady told us there was no price difference and she also said that the rails had to be ordered ONLY and that they didnt keep them in supply. Dh should have checked the receipt at the time, but he didnt. so here we are, and by the minute i am getting upset but im keeping my cool. so the lady get a manager and he walked over to us and is trying to rectify the situation UNTIL we explain to him the only reason we got the split box spring was cause the sales clerk told us there was no price difference. the guy look at me right in the eye and said, Debbie wouldnt do that, she knows better :eek: i lost it! my attitude came out big time! alot of things i am, but a liar i am not! i looked at him and told him i was standing there with my husband and we both heard her. well, he heard the attitude and was all "ma'am, let me help fix this, im trying to help" BY CALLING ME A LIAR?? at this point its 7:30, DH and have been on the move sinc 6am and all i want to do is sleep. what i WANT him to say is "im sorry for the mistake, take the split box spring and we will adjust the pricing for you, youjust need to order the rails." NOW we have to reorder the box spring and i am beyond pissed. AND we find out that they DO stock bed rails! that woman was an idiot! the attitude is spilling out of my mouth and the sales woman comes up to me and says dont worry honey, we will fix it dont get yourself upset. LOL she was right, however, i was beyond reason at this point. i wanted to get my daughters bed set up LAST NIGHT, not in another 2 weeks. DH and the manager walk away to the register and i am ready to explode and the last thing i hear was the guy tell DH that he will have the box spring deliver to the house this saturday free of charge. slightly content i walked out of the place and waited in the truck. DD slept in her new room for the first night last night, on her new mattress on the floor LOL oh well, its all good. but why the hell would a manager at Sears be so stupid to look at a woman who OBVIOUSLY pregnant and call her a liar?? in the end tht is what made me snap, well that and the hormones, lack of sleep and being over worked HAHA. however i feel better now that i yelled at someone, im just glad it wasnt my hubbie! i was beginning to feel like that thin little twig that was bent to the extreme and all the pressure was building up, KWIM?

well, sorry this is so long and thanks for reading if you made it this far LOL you ladies are my therapists that keep me sane some days!

bumblybees's picture
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WOW....yeah there was no reason to call you a liar.

glad you were able to get it worked out.

And most important that you feel better now that you've vented.

Hugs....not too much more to go now!

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OOOHHHHH no he didn't! lol I would of gone off the deep end! that's so rude! customer is always right isn't that the saying?! Well I'm glad things kinda got smoothed over for you, and I know how it is to have your mind set on getting something done and then it falls through....very frustrating.

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Could have been worse, you were right to be upset. But I bet you don't shop at Sears again, if your anything like me. Its hard to contain hormones sometimes, it just bubbles up and comes out before you can stop right? honestly even very passive people like myself have issues while prego! I hope you don't feel bad about it.

Two weeks ago driving on our way to a cabin for the weekend, some *** was tailing my DH, DS, and I. We needed to make a turn into a parking lot, and because he was tailgating us he didn't see DH's turn signal and had to pass us to avoid hitting us, welll I flipped him the bird because i was pissed he almost caused an accident. So what does the driver do? TURNED AROUND and FALLOWED US into the parking lot.... WELLL as soon as he pulled up next to us i was beyond pissed jump out of the car and walk to his window screaming at him that I have my 2 year old son in our car and blahh blahh blahh... swear word swear word (very trashy of me I know!) but it was just spilling out. The guy just kept saying you never know who it is that your flipping off, well OK is that a threat? SO yeah I didn't calm down, but just kept telling the *** to drive away and sorry for FLIPPING him off (WHILE FLIPPING HIM OFF AGAIN!) he did drive away, but needless to say my husband was furious with me, he said I could have been hurt and it made him look like a wuss sending his pregger wife after some jerk! Smile Pregnancy anger management anyone? Honestly though even if I wasn't pregnant, when someone puts my son in danger I get defensive, and that guy was needlessly dangerous. So as far as I can see, stupid drivers and dumb sales people kinda deserve our wrath. But Im sure both my jerk driver and your sales clerk had a lot to talk about that night! Smile

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:bigarmhug:

I am glad you feel better now.

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"Jessica." wrote:

Could have been worse, you were right to be upset. But I bet you don't shop at Sears again, if your anything like me. Its hard to contain hormones sometimes, it just bubbles up and comes out before you can stop right? honestly even very passive people like myself have issues while prego! I hope you don't feel bad about it.

Two weeks ago driving on our way to a cabin for the weekend, some *** was tailing my DH, DS, and I. We needed to make a turn into a parking lot, and because he was tailgating us he didn't see DH's turn signal and had to pass us to avoid hitting us, welll I flipped him the bird because i was pissed he almost caused an accident. So what does the driver do? TURNED AROUND and FALLOWED US into the parking lot.... WELLL as soon as he pulled up next to us i was beyond pissed jump out of the car and walk to his window screaming at him that I have my 2 year old son in our car and blahh blahh blahh... swear word swear word (very trashy of me I know!) but it was just spilling out. The guy just kept saying you never know who it is that your flipping off, well OK is that a threat? SO yeah I didn't calm down, but just kept telling the *** to drive away and sorry for FLIPPING him off (WHILE FLIPPING HIM OFF AGAIN!) he did drive away, but needless to say my husband was furious with me, he said I could have been hurt and it made him look like a wuss sending his pregger wife after some jerk! Smile Pregnancy anger management anyone? Honestly though even if I wasn't pregnant, when someone puts my son in danger I get defensive, and that guy was needlessly dangerous. So as far as I can see, stupid drivers and dumb sales people kinda deserve our wrath. But Im sure both my jerk driver and your sales clerk had a lot to talk about that night! Smile

i feel bad not because he didnt deserve it, but because im usually so in control. but he deserved it!

as for your story, this is SO me!! HAHA Atleast 2 times a week i am flipping ppl off on our way home from work, usually for riding our *** or for cutting me off and almost causing me to wreck. I tell DH all the time to "let me the F out of the car", like that will do any good on the interstate LOL and i dont think your trashy at all! i have a potty mouth, and it much worse now. you hubbie was right, you could have been hurt, however, i would done the exact same thing if it was me. i tell DH all the that i now have "preggo muscles" as noone in their right now is going to go up against a hormonal preggo and i just dont have a filter on my mouth anymore (not that i ever had one) ROFL

as for you making your hubs look like a wuss...that is hysterical! obviously your "preggo muscles" make him insecure!

The only time DD saw me hormonally upset at a stranger: we were running really late to whatever we had to do and i didnt have time to eat. so we stopped by McDonald's and grabbed some lunch and DD andi both wanted it supersized with a Large Sweet tea. LOVE THEIR TEA! anywho, the girl who was taking our order could figure out how to ring up theorder without us being charged an extra $1.50 a piece for the tea. the manager comes over and tries to help and neither of them can figure it out. im sitting there, starving, and i told her to just ring it up normal size. DH is telling them who cares, we get our own drinks anyway, jsut put it in as a soda. but they kept trying to figure out the stupid system. Finally i got really impatient and i snapped an attitude and told them "to just ring up the GD order! im pregnant and my baby is starving!" Lol yeah, they both looked at me and just rang i t up. we didnt even look to see if we got charged teh $3, all i wanted was to 1) eat and to 2) to not get arrested for smacking them both. DD to this day still tells that story as she thought that mom getting attitudy was hysterical HAHA

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"isuche02" wrote:

:bigarmhug:

I am glad you feel better now.

Aww poor you :bigarmhug:

BTW.. that's what that thread was for. Biggrin

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I know it's not funny to laugh, but ya'll crap me up. And I'm guilty of it too. My only issue is if my DH things I'm getting snappy, he'll try to "help" the situation by trying to get me to realize I'm being snappy and say something. He did this at BRU the other day and me, realizing I'm being a b**ch and now being embrassed and even madder becausse he called me out. I just looked at him and said, "Unless you want this to get a;; Jerry Springer in here, you better keep your damn mouth shut. I'll kill you and plead insanity." He just shakes his head. Ugh!

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"KerriWeasel" wrote:

I know it's not funny to laugh, but ya'll crap me up. And I'm guilty of it too. My only issue is if my DH things I'm getting snappy, he'll try to "help" the situation by trying to get me to realize I'm being snappy and say something. He did this at BRU the other day and me, realizing I'm being a b**ch and now being embrassed and even madder becausse he called me out. I just looked at him and said, "Unless you want this to get a;; Jerry Springer in here, you better keep your damn mouth shut. I'll kill you and plead insanity." He just shakes his head. Ugh!

LOL i said something similiar to that recently to DH, but it was about someone else. i wanted to knock someone in the head with a hard object for doing i cant remember and DH made a comment about jail, i looked at him and told him the pregnancy is very similiar to soldiers that just came home from war (hubbie used to use this all the time when he got upset LOL) if he snaps out he will claim PTSD and he will get counseling. well, if i snap out i will claim hormones. no judge in their right mind will send a preggo tojail for that, i may get anger managerment, but that its HAHA yo udo get away with alot when we are in a "delicate" state. as my boss put it recently..