... did you really WANT to have twins?
People tell me all the time (mostly older women) that they really, really wanted to have twins and were always disappointed with all their singletons. Really?
Personally, I was freaking out and overwhelmed and even cried when I found out I was having twins. I love my boys and I'm so thankful for them... but I would have spaced them out by a few years if I had a say in the matter! I just don't get the appeal. I've never worked harder in my life. I don't have the time to really enjoy my kids because I'm just taking care of their needs all the time, if that makes sense. I don't think people 'get' how hard it is sometimes.