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    Question Been MIA Big Time!! I'm Such an Idiot!! Update!!

    Hi Ladies,
    I hope everyone is doing well and Congrats on the new babies!!

    Whoever said taking care 2 lil ones 20 months a part ain't hard is lying big time!! Oh my gosh these kids keep me going and going. I closed my Daycare for almost six months cause I needed a break. I just started enrolling again and finally have three families enrolled and a couple of drop ins. The DH and I went through a very ruff patch after my DD was born I mean close to splitting up ruff patch. After finally reconnecting and making time for us, we have fallen in Love with each other all over again(Thank God).

    I have been doing natural family planning as our birth control and it was going well until the 4th of this month. It was suppose to be 2 days after I ovulated the DH and I DTD without a condom and now I believe I am knocked up again!!AF was suppose to come on the 18th. Somebody shoot me now!!! I feel horrible, my DH trusted me to make sure we didn't get pg again and I screwed up. I just cant have another one right now!! I cant I just got my business back up!! I just got my kids on a schedule!! We are renting!! We need a bigger car!! Did I mention I cant!! I don't want to go through the all day sickness again!! It's so my fault!! For me abortion is not an option!! I was careless and should have known better!!

    Now.. The Hella hard part!! TELLING MY HUSBAND!! I can't!! I'm actually scared!! He has know idea. He doesn't want anymore kids. WTF am I gonna do?!! I just wanna crawl in a hole and hide!! HELP!!

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    Hi Ladies,
    So I went to the Dr. today and I am definitely preggers, a little over 6 weeks. I told the DH as well and he is in total shock and not happy right now. I'm thinking about adoption but I don't know if its bc I'm in shock are what. The round ligament pains kind of sealed the deal. Not as sick as I was with my other ones so that kind of worries me. Ladies I'm so not ready for the worries of pregnancy again so soon, I'm such a worry bug. Sheesh.. I'm in shock!!

    Any of you Ladies were really sick a pregnancies and not so much with another?
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    Have you taken a test? I'd make sure before telling your DH. And you never know, he might take it better than you expect and at least then you'd be dealing with it together. Or maybe you have someone else you can tell? You mom, a sister, a best friend? If you are pregnant, I hope your DH can work with you and figure out how to deal with it. Yes, two 20 months apart is hard. Having three, 20 months and 20 months apart is harder, but you can do it. Good luck.
    big boy 12.8.07 @ 39+2 7lbs 8oz, 20.5" BFed for 13 months
    middle boy 8.12.09 @ 39+4 7lbs 9oz, 21" BFed for 13.5 months
    little boy 4.26.11 @ 38+4 6lbs 14oz, 19.5" BFed until 26mo and again 30-37mo
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    I agree with Virginia, he may be a lot more supportive of the pregnancy then you think.

    I got pregnant with Dana at 18 my mother was going on and on how she'd boot me out if I were pregnant leaving me to fend for myself, well she did quite the opposite, she supported DH and I until Dana was almost 3, she also helped me get my college education and she charged us "rent" that was saved for our down payment on our first house. Just saying you never know.

    I am sure things will work out and by the time this one is born you will be wondering how you ever thought it was inconvenient. Yes it still will be tough but I am sure you can figure something out.


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    Have you tested? It could always just be a wonky cycle... Make sure before you mention it to your DH! Like the others said, maybe he'll be more supportive than you expect. You've made it through a lot already... It will just take time and patience to get through it again.

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    Thanks Ladies,
    I will be testing Saturday but Im almost 100% sure Im pg. I started feeling sick yesterday and it continued today. My body temp is up and I had implantation cramping all last week. I kinda feel like a pro this being my fifth pregnancy and all. SMH! Im stuck, Im in shock. I dont plan on telling him even after I test bc Im not ready. Im so upset with myself. Im gonna do the only thing I can do right now and thats pray.
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    SMH.. Update!
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    congratulations! I know it's not what you were hoping for, but maybe with a little time you'll get used to the idea. I hope DH didn't get angry or anything when you told him (upset is understandable, but angry? it does take two!)
    I was very sick with all of mine.
    You're pretty close to the spacing I have with mine, so if you have any questions, just ask. And good luck.
    big boy 12.8.07 @ 39+2 7lbs 8oz, 20.5" BFed for 13 months
    middle boy 8.12.09 @ 39+4 7lbs 9oz, 21" BFed for 13.5 months
    little boy 4.26.11 @ 38+4 6lbs 14oz, 19.5" BFed until 26mo and again 30-37mo
    baby boy 10.25.13 @ 41+0 8lbs 15oz, 21.5"
    8.16.12 & 12.16.12


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    Congratulations!

    I'm sorry you're feeling so stressed and overwhelmed right now. (((hugs)))) I hope your DH gets on board once the shock wears off.


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    Good luck in deciding what to do. I hope you and your DH will both feel better about it after it has had some time to sink in. As for the differences between pregnancies, I was super nauseated 24/7 with my first until about 16 weeks. With my second, I had little to no nausea whatsoever. They definitely can differ!

    Sean Thomas - 6/30/09 @ 7:17pm 8lb 8oz, 19", 40w5d
    Calvin Michael - 2/28/11 @ 7:39pm 6lb 8oz, 18", 37w5d
    Nolan Matthew - 5/1/13 @ 11:54pm 6lb 4oz, 19", 38w4d

    May 26, 2010 - 7w1d

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    I hope that you and DH can come to a joint agreement on this little one. I'll be thinking of you!
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