We lost the baby (m/c mentioned)

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We lost the baby (m/c mentioned)

After a little spotting, and a blood test that showed low progesterin levels, they did an ultrasound and found no heartbeat. We most likely lost the baby within the last week at around 10 1/2 weeks.

D/C scheduled for monday, but I'm trying to find a way to get it tomorrow. I just can't wait that long. It was just so heartbreaking seeing that sweet little baby with no heartbeat on the ultrasound.

Cari

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Oh Cari I am so so sorry. :bigarmhug: I have been there twice, please feel free to share your pain with us, I wish there was more we could do

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Sad I'm so sorry to hear this. I also went through a m/c last year and it is sooo devastating. Sending lots of hugs and healing vibes your way.

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I am so, so sorry. :bighug:

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Oh Cari! I am SO sorry friend! Sending T&Ps your way! :bighug:

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So sorry for your loss, Cari. :bigarmhug: Thinking of you during this difficult time!

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D&C scheduled for tomorrow at 1pm. I'm ready to get it over with, but it's just so damn hard.

Cari

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I'm so sorry hun! You will be in my T&P's during this time. :bigarmhug:

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Sorry to hear about your loss.

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oh honey, I am so very sorry! *hugs* We are here for you!

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D&C went well. I'm so glad they knock you out for it. It was the anticipation that was hard. I feel the same as I did just before it. Like I have my period.

I'm sad. I wish I was still pregnant. But honestly, it hasn't been feeling right for the last few weeks. Ever since my belly ballooned and then flattened two days later, it never seemed to balloon again. I didn't feel pregnant and my symptoms (what few I had) were slowly fading away. Even the evening exhaustion and insomnia disappeared. So I suppose I kind of knew it wasn't going right.

The baby was fully developed to about 10 weeks, so on track. But I suppose my body gave up knowing it was coming. I know that little baby will come back to me when the time is right and he or she can develop into a healthy, happy baby.

Thank you for your support. Love you guys.

Cari

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I'm sorry for your loss. T&P's for peace and a HH9ms in the future!

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I'm so so sorry Cari :bighug:

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I'm so sorry Cari for your loss! Sad :bigarmhug: