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Yes or no?

Should we BD tonight or not?

I finally started getting some darker lines on my OPKs today, so I tested twice: my usual time of 2pm, and then just a bit ago at 6pm.

Here is 6pm's test!

I know that's still negative, but since it's dried after the photo was taken, it's soooo dark. I know that it doesn't count outside of the window, but should we BD tonight to cover our bases? I just don't want to over-BD. ROFL We BD'd last night, so now I have no idea if I caught the beginning of my surge tonight and we should BD, or wait till tomorrow.

Thoughts?!

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can't hurt. But, every other day should be fine.

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I agree with Virginia... EOD is more than enough! Wink Have fun!

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Haha thanks, ladies. I gave DH the night off last night!! Wink

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Alright ladies!

What do you think of today's?????

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OoOo that one looks good to me - definitely worth some BD'ing !! Smile

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"JDBabyHopes" wrote:

Alright ladies!

What do you think of today's?????

:wootjump: You better get busy!!! Wink

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"SnowWhite9028" wrote:

:wootjump: You better get busy!!! Wink

ROFL We did, we did! We'll BD again tonight, so hopefully I get a temp spike in the next few days!! Then I guess I'll be in the 2WW! Biggrin

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Yaaaay! I'm just now seeing it, but that's a beautiful OPK! Woohoo for 2ww! So much better than the WTO!

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that was definitely positive! looking at your chart, I'll say you've got your bases covered and probably Oed on the 2nd. When do you plan to test?

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I just double-checked my chart and realized I forgot to mark yesterday's BD! So yeah, we did get a BD in yesterday, which I think is O day, too. We'll BD tonight for good measure, too.

I want to hold out till 12-14DPO, but you know... with all the POAS pushers around here and my personal weakness, probably 10DPO. Haha. So I guess that would be... Oct 12th?

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when did you get a BFP with Owen? 10dpo seems to be my magic day. (I've had BFPs at 10dpo, late 10dpo, and 9/10dpo)

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Same here! My BFP with Sean was at 10dpo and my BFP's with the m/c and with Cal were both at 9dpo. I couldn't hold off any longer! That said, I've never had a 12-day LP, so waiting that long would have been like waiting for AF, and where's the fun in that??

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That is one good looking OPK, lots of baby vibes to you.

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EEEEEEEEEEEK! Great OPK, glad you got in lots of BD'ing! How exciting!

Personally, I got a BFN at 10dpo and didn't get a BFP til 12dpo. But I was using Internet cheapie tests, so maybe that was why...

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"pico83" wrote:

when did you get a BFP with Owen? 10dpo seems to be my magic day. (I've had BFPs at 10dpo, late 10dpo, and 9/10dpo)

I got my BFP with him at 10DPO! I had the faaaintest line on an IC with FMU, and tested with an FRER and digi later that evening when I got home from work. Of course, both were BFP's, too. Wink And that was dinnertime! So I think I could get one at 10DPO, but there is a girl on the June 2012 board that got a 10DPO BFP with her first, and didn't get a BFP till 14DPO with this baby! So I guess it can vary.

Either way, I'm excited to be in the 2WW! You guys ready to stalk? Biggrin

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"JDBabyHopes" wrote:

You guys ready to stalk? Biggrin

Yes! Biggrin

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Ready to stalk! Yahoo So excited!!!

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TOTALLY ready!! I was 10DPO with both kiddos too Smile

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So, now I'm confused! It looks like if my temp stays elevated tomorrow, FF is going to give me my CH's on CD 16! I don't think that is right! Do you guys? I also use the TCOYF software (ovusoft) and it has my O date as CD 17. I think that's more accurate, though I'm not sure.

Hmm... now I'm worried we didn't BD enough? Like if O was on CD 16, we should've BD on CD 15, but it was an "off" day since we were EOD at that point.

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I think you should go with the TCOYF software... I think you have your BD bases covered! Wink What happens when you put in another higher temp? Does it move your O date to CD17?

Welcome to the TWW... Get ready for some POAS pushers!

I got my BFP @ 10dpo with this pregnancy!

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No, FF keeps my O date as CD 16 no matter how many days of high temps I put in! It gave me CH's on CD 16 this morning when I popped in my temp (it had my coverline at 97.16, which I think is too low), so I changed the method to FAM (which is the same as TCOYF) and it took the CH's away. I'm really thinking O was on CD 17, so I'm going to go with that. If I did O on CD 16, hopefully having BD'd CD 14 and 16 was enough. :shrug:

Kind of crampy and my back hurt this morning, but I think it's all in my head. Wink My nipples hurt on Sunday (like a shooting hurt back through? It was weird), but that's gone. I think I'll probably have phantom symptoms until I POAS. Lol

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go with your gut for O day. I think you should be fine whichever day you Oed. Your chart looks great.

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Yahoo 2ww.... Let the symptoms begin!! So excited for you Jen!

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Yahoo yay for CHs! I'm have chart envy. I love seeing that thermal shift. My chart still looks like an EKG printout.

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Thanks, Laura!

Lol Virginia! Yeah, I had an EKG chart back in June when I had that annov cycle. You will get there and see a beautiful temp shift soon enough! Wink

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Congratulations Jen! Yahoo :party:

HH9M! Yahoo