I know a lady on another board who recently delivered her baby who had died in utero. I feel kind of close to her because she once was my secret sister. I would like to send something to her because I am thinking of her and her family but I don't want to send the wrong thing. Are flowers ok? Or should I wait until the funeral to send them? Or should I just send a card? I really want to support her I just don't want to say or do the wrong thing. Thank you.