On Saturday and Sunday I got (+) HPT, I was 3 days late. Monday morning it turned into a (-) test and then I started bleeding, I was 4 weeks 3 days. My cycle is usually 26 days.
I have had a number of M/C, this is my sixth. Last night Dh and I were in bed watching TV.
I said something and he replied the he "wanted to get laid". I asked his he forgot what was going on. So, he flew off the handle and said I was only pg for "like two minuntes" and was crazy to call it a chemical pregnancy or m/c. It went on from there.
Now, I was not crying or carrying on all day. Yes, it hurts and sucks. But I have tow beautiful boys, we adopted Jonathan from Korea in 2005 b/c I could not get pg. Alex kind of came along a year later.
Do I not have the right to be a little upset? Is there some magical number of weeks when you are allowed to be sad? DH seems to think I have to be 8-10 weeks along before I show any emotion.
To me it was a baby no matter what the age. I think I grieve more at this point for what could have been and my two days of being excited and happy.