I seemed to have stopped bleeding from the d & c i had on saturday. I know the doc advised not to bd until i get my first af but what do you all think? I know they like to know when you have af so they can date a pregnancy but what about is it safe due to potential infection?? Im not talking bd so we can start to ttc again, if i get pg then great i guess but we are not gonna start activly trying til after af. Also, is it bad for you to get pg so soon after a d&c, i mean will there be enough lining to implant? If there is a risk then i think we will leave it til after my first af. This wasnt something that was really discussed with me in the hosp so i dont have a clue. I have read differently everywhere, some ladies say they got pg straight away, some say they waited a month, some say a few months! Help!