I recently had a loss at 21 weeks. I would like to do a mother's ring or something similar, for my 3 boys here and for our angel baby. I am not sure what to do, if there is even any type of protocol for it, but what birthstone would I use for our angel--the month of the loss, or the expected birth month? Would like to know others thoughts on this. Thanks
I have been wondering this too. Also, I found out the baby died in March but had the d&c done in April... do I choose one of those or the due date in October? Not sure what I am going to do.
I did the month of loss. I'm trying to remember where i ordered it from. I'll post a link when i figure it out.
You have to decide what feels right for you. For me the day we lost our DD is the day that will forever be "her day", so I go with that month for her birthstone.
DS Sawyer 4/1/06
DD Payton too beautiful for this earth, born silently 7/19/09 at 33 wks
DS Greyson 6/29/11
DS Parker 4/14/14