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    Quote Originally Posted by moheesviolin View Post
    I don't actually have a DH. My boyfriend and I broke up shortly after my d&c. Actually, right before, then he stayed around and was supportive for about a day, and then he decided I had been lying about having been pregnant and walked away. So no comfort time with him.
    I decided to get one of the kittens, as soon as they are weaned. They're really sweet, pure white with big blue eyes, although those will probably change with age. They are sooo adorable, and I need a distraction right now.
    The kittens sound adorable!! I hope he or she helps you heal a little bit. Cute, cuddly animals sure do that for me

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    having blue periods again.. insomnia... this totally sucks.. DD wants to be with me almost ALL the time and even if I get some alone time.. I don't end up letting it out... don't really know what to do anymore..

    Can't take baths at the moment - had a c-section - dr said "no sitting in water"... which also means no swimming at the moment...have 3 or so more weeks of that..

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    I love cats, have always had them where ever I've lived. Even (illegally) in my dorm in college. They are a real comfort, and those kittens need a home and I need a distraction. Just have to get my other kitties used to the idea of sharing. They'll adjust.
    Hope your appointment goes well Holly, and I hope you get the answers you want.

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    Oh Mohee, I am so sorry about your ex. I can totally relate and I don't understand how guys can be/think like that.

    You need to post a pic of your kitty for us all to fall in love with!

    I am having a blah day. June 4th was the 5th year anni of my 3rd PG loss and although I knew what day it was then, I tried to make the best of it but I do feel bad that I didn't "grieve" as much as I think I should have. Does that make sense?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SparkleMomma View Post

    I am having a blah day. June 4th was the 5th year anni of my 3rd PG loss and although I knew what day it was then, I tried to make the best of it but I do feel bad that I didn't "grieve" as much as I think I should have. Does that make sense?
    Yes, that makes perfect sense. I feel like that a lot...like I should still be grieving HARD!! I still miss my baby every single day, but it has gotten a little easier with time. We know what you mean, and we know you still miss your Lo deeply. *hugs*

    As for me, I just got home from my appointment with the doctor. It wasn't a bad appointment, but wasn't great either She asked if I was still bleeding, and I told her to be honest I'm not sure if it's old, old blood or brown-tinged CM. She said that until it's gone for 7 days that we can't DTD. But she did say once it's gone we can w/protection and that once AF returns we can start trying again. She told me she hopes to see me back in her office by the end of the summer, so we'll see!

    She asked if my periods were regular, and I explained to her what they were like right before I got pregnant. She said that they weren't regular and gave me a card to keep track of them (I'll just keep track on FF) and if I don't have a regular period after 3 months to go back in and she'll check to see what's going on.

    We also talked about temping and I asked about my pre-O temps and if they were "normal." We talked about how low they are pre-O and then what they are after and she said they are normal, and as long as I'm having that temp jump after O I should be alright. She also talked about the changes in CM during and after O too, so hopefully everything will work out and once AF returns I'll get another BFP. I'm trying to be optimistic.

    I also decided to ask if they were able to tell what the gender was. It's been bugging me a lot lately She said that it was too early...had it been another week or so later then they *might* have been able to tell. I'm glad I asked because now I can stop pestering myself about wondering if they could tell. I still wish they knew...it would help bring more closer.

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    What I don't understand about my ex is how he could hurt someone so badly. By nature I'm a kind person, I do my best to help where ever I can. I see someone that is hurting, physically or emotionally, and I try my hardest to help. Whatever I think of that person, like them or not, know them or not, care about them at all or not, if I'm exhausted, tired, scared, angry, it is insignificant. It doesn't matter because at that point it isn't about me. It's about whoever it is that is hurting. You see someone who is hurt and you do your damnest to help. That isn't extrordinary, that qualifies you as human being. Maybe that sounds incredibly naive, but I've been hurt badly before and I still believe it. I don't know that I am capable of deliberatly doing something that I know will hurt someone I don't even know. I don't understand how he could hurt someone he at least once cared for.

    Holly, I'm sorry you couldn't find out the gender of your LO. I feel almost like I cheated by getting the genetic analysis done. I got to know the gender and physical traits. I don't really know if that helped or made it worse. I hope things improve for you soon, and you get your AF.

    I'll post pictures of the kitty soon!

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    Yay! I can't wait to see pics of the kitties! Do you have a name for yours yet?

    I guess it's better that I didn't find out the gender. If it turned out to be a boy, and we have another girl next time I know DH will be a little disappointed. He'll be happy for a healthy little baby, but a part of him is really hoping for a little boy. Me, on the other hand, I just want a healthy little bub to love on!

    I'm really sorry you're ex is acting this way. You sound like a very kind, caring person, and I think you are!! Especially making total strangers memory bracelets for our LOs. I hope he realizes that how he is treating you is completely uncalled for. We're here for you though

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    Hugs everyone.

    I have had a week away with family and friends at the beach. It was just what i needed. I have our appointment tomorrow to get all our test results. Am feeling quite nervous as i know it will be upsetting, but i will be glad when it is over and we know all we can and try and move on. It has been 2 months now and it seems like this limbo waiting for this appointment has taken forever.

    Have a good week everyone.

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    Good luck Sunny!

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    Good luck tomorrow Sunny You'll be in my thoughts and prayers...

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