a couple good weeks then it hits again

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a couple good weeks then it hits again

I have had a couple of good weeks, yeah I think of my daughter and what I lost but I don't cry or sob over her death then this morning I woke up with this overwhelming thought of something missing and I realized it is her. I started to sob in my husbands arms and asking him when I will feel normal again. I know I won't feel the same as before I was pregnant but I don't want the sadness all the time. I want to move forward with whatever my life is now suppose to be. I guess some of this has to do with the my moms birthday which is Nov 14th, she died when I was 12 and I still want her around. I don't know I was doing so well now I am sad again. It could also be the holidays or maybe this is normal. I just wanted to vent and share my thoughts.

Thanks for listening

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Joined: 04/12/07
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{{{Hugs}}}} I am so sorry you don't have your mom. My mom's birthday was on the 9th. She passed away 3 years ago unexpectedly. When I had my loss one of my revolving thoughts was that I wished my mom was there. And the 9th was a rough day for me. I understand and I'm here if you need me.

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Joined: 08/31/06
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Sad :bigarmhug:

I'm sorry. I don't know how long it will take either. It's been 17 months since my Peter died and I still have days like that. I think it's okay to have them. :bigarmhug:


Joined: 11/19/05
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I still have these days...though, there may be weeks or months before one hits....

I don't think we ever stop missing/grieving our lo's.... :bighug:


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Joined: 01/13/07
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I am so sorry for your grief. I hope that you have some good days again soon. Great big cyber hugs coming your way.


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Joined: 08/09/05
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Just a hug...


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Joined: 09/04/07
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I just wanted to send you a hug too :bigarmhug:

Joined: 09/18/07
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Oh Robin

I am so sorry. I know how you feel about having a few good days (or longer) and then bam it hits you again like a ton of bricks.

I wish I could say something to help. I am sure your mom's b-day is not helping the situation much either. Please PM if you want to talk. I'm going out to my bereavement support group but I'll be home about 9:30pm EST.


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Honey, I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could do to make things better for you


Joined: 08/20/07
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I know:( HUGE HUG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Joined: 03/16/15
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I am sorry :bigarmhug: