Well, I had my procedure yesterday. It went very well and my bleeding is already a lot less now than it was before I had it done! The doc told me she really didnt have to manipulate the cervix either, because it was already open Which made me glad, because I have an incopetent cervix and I didnt know how that proceudre would affect that. Five minutes before we were going in they offered me the chrmosome testing.....I looked to my husband and he said no, it wouldnt help to know why. So I declined it, but now its haunting me. I know I cant change my answer now, so I should just try to be at peace, but I could have known the sex and we could have known what happened even though it was only my first mc. Anyways, I hope that was not a mistake. I feel ike the baby was a boy, so Ill stick to that, and I just hope whatever went wrong was a one time thing. I guess if it ever happens again, we will just definitly get the testing done that time. Thanks for your well wishes, and now today, its time for me to pick up the pieces and move on with life. Thanks again ladies for your support.